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- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:07 PM
- OK give me some advice here
- Say someone wants to start a new rp with you
- And you're kinda hype about it they set up a server
- And without asking you they invite someone to handle rng stuff during it, someone you don't like
- What do you do
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:08 PM
- And it's for sure not a bot?
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:08 PM
- They can see everything
- And they're still in the server
- There's no role restrictions
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:09 PM
- Maybe ask them, 'hey I am not comfortable with people seeing my RP posts in regards to -insert name here- I know they're you're friend, but I am not comfy, is that okay?'
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:10 PM
- PFFFFFFFFT This is not going to be a fun conversation
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:10 PM
- No, usually saying it to someone isn't usually fun. Specially if you don't know them that well
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:11 PM
- Because me not liking the person is sort of new? As in when I get home from vacation I'm not doing anything with them again, when I got home the first time they were passive aggressive to me in every single opportunity they got
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:11 PM
- Do I know this person? And just say you aren't comfortable for RP reasons, that's easier to understand
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:11 PM
- And when I asked the friend about it they didn't really respond
- Yeeaaahhhh you kinda do
- Paige
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:12 PM
- Is this for the reminder server thing?
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:12 PM
- No, for a RP
- I didn't join that because I don't want to join calls at all
- I don't want to talk to Paige
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:13 PM
- Yiii, it's not for calls just for reminders and bot fuckery
- Ah
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:13 PM
- They were in call when I joined
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:13 PM
- Yiii, they were in call in simply before that
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:13 PM
- And I'm guessing that's where they're going to go to escape David
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:13 PM
- then both joined
- I don't think it's gonna be a call place
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:14 PM
- Either way, I don't want any part of that, I muted simply so I'll never join it
- If anything I'm trying to distance myself in general
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:14 PM
- Maybe tell Alex about Paige then? Give her a heads up about it, and say 'hey can you pls remove them from this because this person isn't going to be apart of my life anymore'
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:15 PM
- You know her though, it wouldn't be that easy
- At least not for me, I'm her "comic relief"
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:15 PM
- You aren't just comic relief, Sav
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:16 PM
- It's what she tells me and what she says to me, I believe it
- I couldn't shake the feeling that a lot of red flags were going off so I showed the fight to perse but blurred out the names, said a friend sent me it and I don't really know what advice to give to the person who sent me it
- Her advice just kind of made me realize that I need to back off
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:18 PM
- Maybe think of something to say once you're home, and more relaxed? In a better mindset when you're not so stressed over everything
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:18 PM
- Maybe, I'm not cutting ties or anything
- Just sort of not letting someone control how I feel as much
- We had a good friendship before but now it's shaky at best
- When it's good it's good, but when things go a little bit bad it goes to shit for awhile
- And then I feel like shit and then I make the people around me feel like shit
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:20 PM
- With Alex or with Paige? Or is it a both thing?
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:20 PM
- Moreso with Alex
- I'm not calling her a bad person or anything either, don't worry
- The 'blame' for things getting rocky falls on both people
- But honestly, if I get anxious about telling my friend that I don't want to be around someone it's time to back off a bit
- I want to be a more positive person because I annoy myself to death with complaining and it sets my anxiety off yet when I do it it's like.... lack of impulse control
- Also pls don't tell her this or anything, I don't want to upset her or hurt her or anything
- I genuinely want her to be in a better place mentally as well, I know she has a low self esteem and I don't want to do anything to hurt that
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:26 PM
- You're going to upset her regardless, when you're deciding to 'move on', not cut ties but you even said you are distancing yourself
- You should tell her this stuff yourself
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:27 PM
- Why? You know how she is, she's a proud person, she's going to go "ok fine, then I'm cutting you off completely"
- It's what I'd do because I'm the same way
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:28 PM
- Then maybe it's better off? You are obviously stressed out enough to have the 'I'm going to end this' every couple of months
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:28 PM
- It's what she does when she's hurt, what I do too so I'm not saying that as a bad thing either
- Because we're still in a lot of communities together
- And I do genuinely care about our RP and stuff
- I don't want to be on bad terms
- And I care about her as a person too, I want her to get back to how she was feeling when we were first started talking
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:30 PM
- That's not going to happen, because everytime you think back to that it's the 'before Paige time', she seems to be back on track with her happiness a bit, her sleep is just being bad for her right now
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:32 PM
- Are you annoyed by this? I wasn't trying to talk shit on anyone or anything, nor did I really have the intent to bring this up at all tbh it just kinda came out like word vomit, but I can stop if you'd like
- Can you please promise me that you're not going to tell her?
- I'll drop the conversation and won't bring it up again, but please tell me that at least
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:36 PM
- I am annoyed by this, only because this came up right after I re-joined Simply and because you are putting a lot of this on Alex and Paige, you haven't been the nicest person lately Sav
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:36 PM
- I'm not putting anything on them
- I'm saying I'm just going to emotionally distance myself for a bit so I can work on how I feel and then work on our friendship more
- I'm not saying "oh she's a terrible friend", I'm not saying "oh I'm so perfect" at all
- Again, can you please promise me that you'll let me handle this on my own and not tell her?
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:38 PM
- Sure, I can promise that
- i have a big sword - Yesterday at 11:39 PM
- Thank you, I promise I won't do anything dishonest or hurt your friend
- Calsa - Yesterday at 11:39 PM
- Alrighty
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