Some girls really do tell their friends about their  lives.` Im really happy for you, man. She sounds like a keeper.` That my friend is a good woman and a great catch.` deleted` This is the level at which my F friends and I discuss our  lives. High level details are where I keep it. To me, discussing genitalia or specific moves is a violation of my partners trust. ` The only time Ive ever  from penetration was with a guy who was on the small side, so now I am a firm believer in not judging a book by its cover. ` My husband has always been selfconscious about his because hes been told hes small by at least a couple women hes been with and, while he is about half the size of my ex, he hits me in all the right places and I tell him hes the perfect size. I bet thats how it was for her. ` It can be really mindblowing and healing to have a partner who appreciates something you are insecure about. Thanks for sharing` You know, I never really cared about size but my friends did and it always grossed me out a little the way they talked about it. I always thought of it as trashy and misdirected.   Honestly speaking I wouldnt for a second hesitate if my partner had a micro . And the more I get into the kinkbdsm community the less I find people talking about it. So much more to . And Im not talking just about oral. I feel like the electricity, the control, the giving, all the fulfillment you get from knowing youve turned your partner on and are making himher go wild. This is all one hundred necessary if you have a small or large  and in my eyes the only way to fail is to focus on size or your own insecurities.` Good for you man  Its true that not all women care about size.  Theres so much more about giving a woman pleasure than a big . `