So I met this girl at work, we spent 3 hours together in the cafeteria , chatting it up , there was TONS of attraction, tons of flirting goin on, obvious interest. I got her number. Didnt text her, then a few weeks go by, we ran into each other again... same thing, tons of flirting, her tellin me we should hang out, hinting that I should text her up, etc..
Then like the idiot that I am , I DID text her later that night, saying something along the lines of " when I come back from my trip im bringing my rackets and we gonna go for a game of two , u better start practicing " ( we're both avid tennis players ) .. anyway as expected, the SHIT tests began , she did not text back ... like EVER ... a month goes by , no word , and i didn't double text either.

Then we ran into each other again, and ALL the same flirting / attraction / hinting was back !! she even asked me if I brought my rackets and I said nah I forgot lol. I was at that time showing very little interest, since she ignored my text, I wanted to gain some of that power back, but HER flirting became even stronger, lots of kino .. etc

another few weeks go by, i did not text, then out of the blue she texts me "Yo wat r u up to ? did you grab lunch yet ?" I made her wait about 3 hours ( lunch time had long passed ) and said " Hey you, didnt see ur msg till now, were u tryin 2 see if I'd come to lunch with you ? I feel so flattered (silly face) " ... and nothing since ...

I felt pretty good about my message, except for the ( didnt see ur msg till now part justification ) , but the rest kinda shows that I aknowledge that SHE's the one interested in me, and I did not jump head over heels to reschedule a lunch, leaving her confused, playing her game ... but my friends think its whack .. I need to know where to go from here ? how do I turn this into a success story, if I didnt totally fuck it up yet lol