map.resources :follows do |follow|
    follow.resources :men
    follow.resources :women
end

follow_women GET    /follows/:follow_id/women(.:format)          {:action=>"index", :controller=>"women"}
                                  POST   /follows/:follow_id/women(.:format)          {:action=>"create", :controller=>"women"}
               new_follow_woman GET    /follows/:follow_id/women/new(.:format)      {:action=>"new", :controller=>"women"}
              edit_follow_woman GET    /follows/:follow_id/women/:id/edit(.:format) {:action=>"edit", :controller=>"women"}
                   follow_woman GET    /follows/:follow_id/women/:id(.:format)      {:action=>"show", :controller=>"women"}
                                  PUT    /follows/:follow_id/women/:id(.:format)      {:action=>"update", :controller=>"women"}
                                  DELETE /follows/:follow_id/women/:id(.:format)      {:action=>"destroy", :controller=>"women"}
                  follow_men GET    /follows/:follow_id/men(.:format)           {:action=>"index", :controller=>"men"}
                                  POST   /follows/:follow_id/men(.:format)           {:action=>"create", :controller=>"men"}
               new_follow_man GET    /follows/:follow_id/men/new(.:format)       {:action=>"new", :controller=>"men"}
              edit_follow_man GET    /follows/:follow_id/men/:id/edit(.:format)  {:action=>"edit", :controller=>"men"}
                   follow_man GET    /follows/:follow_id/men/:id(.:format)       {:action=>"show", :controller=>"men"}
                                  PUT    /follows/:follow_id/men/:id(.:format)       {:action=>"update", :controller=>"men"}
                                  DELETE /follows/:follow_id/men/:id(.:format)       {:action=>"destroy", :controller=>"men"}
would like it to go to a new follow and pass in the fact that it's a type men with man_id whatever