public void enemyPush(Pirate pirate)
        {
           foreach(Pirate enemy in GetEnemyLivingPirates())
                 if (pirate.CanPush(enemy))
                 {
                    pirate.Push(enemy, My_home);
                  }
        }

        public void friendlyPush(Pirate me,Pirate friend){
            if(me.CanPush(friend)){
                me.push(friend,My_home);
            }


        }