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- epheles - Today at 11:13 PM
- also sorry for going off on jaely about something personal, but she kinda made me look really bad without meaning to
- and she has a problem with doing everything but talking to someone about her problems
- and i know a lot of people in there like her and care about her, so it's just dumb to not do that kinda thing when you know it helps you
- especially when she happens to be self deprecating and say bad things about herself when she's not feeling well at all
- noah - Today at 11:14 PM
- i dont think she made you look bad, at least in my eyes
- i realize you have good intentions and really need to hammer into her head that people are willing to talk and listen to her
- its not really easy to talk to people about problems especially if you dont talk to them regularly
- so shes probably just scared but im sure you would know more about what shes feeling than i do
- epheles - Today at 11:16 PM
- her depression in general is really crippling
- she goes to an alternative school which has like 3 hour days and you do your work on your own really
- she says she cries in the bathroom almost everyday there
- and can't sit still and do work
- then she goes home and proceeds to feel like shit, and doesn't really do anything
- she naps mostly
- i don't even know if talking helps her, but she has the works when it comes to things to help her
- antidepressants, psychiatrist, therapy
- all of that
- but she's still so sad all the time, even i don't really know what to do
- but i don't want to see her hating on herself constantly in group chat
- when she could read a book, lay down, exercise, or literally anything else that could help her mood
- sorry if i sound retarded somehow but that's how i felt
- noah - Today at 11:19 PM
- she needs a life style change in my opinion
- sitting on the computer all day talking to people online that often shit on you if not healthy
- and im not sure she takes the shit she gets as a joke
- at least not always
- i know what its like to have depression with antidepressants, therapy etc etc and it doesnt really help if you dont try and fix your mentality
- and you should always push her to talk to you or someone its healthy and she needs to do that
- regardless of if it might help her immediately or not its always good to have someone to talk to
- epheles - Today at 11:22 PM
- i invite her to talk to me whenever and to even write down how she feels in a word document or something if she doesn't want to tell me everything at once
- because with how emotional she is, her emotions can come out really bad and be confusing even
- and you could easily misinterpret, so she does that
- i do tell her she needs a lifestyle change though, and how sitting at a computer when you feel like shit doesn't really help
- she listens to sad songs constantly too
- noah - Today at 11:25 PM
- as long as youre a figure there who she feels she can talk to i think thats a step in the right direction
- and you should just push her to take baby steps into doing stuff that makes her a little uncomfortable but help her and better her
- i dont mean to sound like you should baby her or anything
- but i would imagine she'll listen to you over probably anyone else
- and that sad song thing definitely doesnt help she needs to surround herself with happiness
- not things that make everything worse
- epheles - Today at 11:27 PM
- she does listen to me a lot more than most people, and at the moment the 'goal' i set for her really is just graduating highschool and learning how to drive soon after
- then getting a summer job, since she's been wanting a job
- goal as in something she and i agreed on when it comes to something she would actively work torwards
- NEW MESSAGES
- noah - Today at 11:29 PM
- thats a good start
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