Chance - Today at 4:16 PM
so liam has some weird illusion that i apparently hate you or something but that's not the case
i spaced myself out because i don't want to be in the middle of your relationship which apparently I still am and I'm being forced to fix something that isn't even an issue
i dont hate you, i dont hate kerwell
i'm just annoyed by the relationship
Matcha - Today at 4:17 PM
how is it annoying to you?
Chance - Today at 4:17 PM
and i dont want my time with kerwell to have to include you all the time
i need my bro time
Matcha - Today at 4:17 PM
I don't mind giving you bro time
but I don't know when that is when you never ask for it specifically
Chance - Today at 4:17 PM
so idk why he thinks im holding some sort of grudge
that takes effort
Matcha - Today at 4:17 PM
unless you're specific how does he know it's bro time
well I mean, calling him whipped af can cause someone to think certain things
Chance - Today at 4:18 PM
well he chose to allocate most of his time with you
that's fine
Matcha - Today at 4:18 PM
he's my bf so it's a normal thing
he's going to include me whenever he can
unless asked specifically
that you want 1 on 1
so you're saying you don't mind me being around
but you just want some time with him
Chance - Today at 4:20 PM
yes
Matcha - Today at 4:20 PM
then next time you do it try not to insult him or me
cause that doesn't help
Chance - Today at 4:21 PM
im not going to force him though so whenever he has that sort of time then cool
we're guys
we insult eachother on a regular basis
Matcha - Today at 4:21 PM
lol
he's your friend
you should know how to ask him to spend time
without being rude
Chance - Today at 4:23 PM
and you should know how to be the "bigger man" as liam was saying
because i honestly didn't care, i didn't have a problem
but he called me and basically forced me to "be the bigger man"
Matcha - Today at 4:24 PM
i wasn't the one sending a bunch of messages to him
and spamming him
when I kicked you
because of your own trolling
Chance - Today at 4:24 PM
lol
Matcha - Today at 4:24 PM
I was trying to be the "bigger man"
but when I heard all the stuff you sent him
i dunno
makes it hard
Chance - Today at 4:25 PM
he begged me to play the i get kicked for memeing
Matcha - Today at 4:25 PM
he didn't beg
Chance - Today at 4:25 PM
when i wanted to be in the call so i didnt feel like a 3rd wheel
Matcha - Today at 4:25 PM
he just asked you
Chance - Today at 4:25 PM
but im at fault right?
Matcha - Today at 4:25 PM
and you assumed he was begging
Chance - Today at 4:25 PM
sure i over reacted but im not in the wrong lol
Matcha - Today at 4:25 PM
chance.
i was gone for 3 days
you had all that time to hang out with him
when I got back
of course he wants to be with JUST me
Chance - Today at 4:25 PM
yeah i asked him to hang out like 3 times
Matcha - Today at 4:25 PM
we hadn't talked for 3 days
Chance - Today at 4:25 PM
and he never did
weird
Matcha - Today at 4:25 PM
that has nothing to do with me
i wasn't even around
but let's be real
it's to be expected that he would want to be with just me(edited)
tbh I expected you guys to be hanging out a lot while I was gone
to take advantage of that
Chance - Today at 4:27 PM
yeah it's to be expected
that's why i dont care
he chose you so it's w/e
Matcha - Today at 4:27 PM
AFTER I GOT BACK FROM A TRIP LOL
Chance - Today at 4:28 PM
as if that was the only time lol
Matcha - Today at 4:28 PM
do you regret him and I meeting?
Chance - Today at 4:29 PM
are you really asking that
i spaced myself out for a reason
Matcha - Today at 4:30 PM
I'm just asking because sometimes it feels that way and tbh it makes me sad because without you I wouldn't have met him
I owe a lot to you
and I'm sorry that he spends so much time with me
and i'm not going to lie that I want to be with him as much as possible
but I also value your friendship with him
I didn't realise it was such a problem to you that I was there all the time
Chance - Today at 4:31 PM
me neither
i've been on the opposite end of shit like this before
relationships aren't complicated, people just make them complicated
Matcha - Today at 4:33 PM
you're the one making this complicated right now
Chance - Today at 4:33 PM
i didn't feel like this was a problem, hence why i didn't bring it up
but liam thought it was
Matcha - Today at 4:33 PM
because liam and I are both trying to figure out a solution
because clearly you want a change(edited)
Chance - Today at 4:33 PM
but there wasnt really a problem
the solution was me spacing myself out
lmao
it's not my relationship so why should i be complaining
Matcha - Today at 4:34 PM
yeah you're right
but I don't want you and liam having problems because of me either
Chance - Today at 4:35 PM
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i think we are fine
Matcha - Today at 4:35 PM
i guess so
Chance - Today at 4:36 PM
grudges take effort
effort i dont have
Matcha - Today at 4:36 PM
lol yeah
Chance - Today at 4:36 PM
im just tryna focus on myself and school
because i've been saying that for months but never knew how
Matcha - Today at 4:36 PM
did you figure out how?
Chance - Today at 4:38 PM
sort of
it started with that soul searching you helped me with
Matcha - Today at 4:41 PM
i'm glad it helped