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01:31:19 [Grinch-Apertus] whispers: (currently I don't understand. He said what they wanted to hear, that he will put Vyzin to place and boom she still shoots his shoulder. Like wtf?)
01:33:20 To [Grinch-Apertus]: He disappointed just about everyone in that it took two KOs and a keg against his head to bring it in his head that it wasn't an excusable mistake, his opinion shifted towards the harsher and harsher everytime someone shouted at
01:33:20 To [Grinch-Apertus]: him, and all in all it made him seem an all the more spineless coward swayed into doing his job only by the bellowing protests of his crew, instead of being a proper leader with an eye for right or wrong who's first instinct shouldn't have been to protect
01:33:20 To [Grinch-Apertus]: Vy, but to get up himself, and come down on her for doing something stupid
01:33:54 To [Grinch-Apertus]: once more he's protected his wife rather than protecting the crew member he'd damn nearly killed, and ignored the emotions and feelings of -all- his present crew members, in favor of protecting his wife's even when she admitted to being in the wrong
01:34:41 [Grinch-Apertus] whispers: (he tried to calm the situation down and get things settled as he was awaking and both mei and almy were bombarding vy with questions, shooting questions like a mindless beast brings nothing in a hasty situation)
01:35:46 To [Grinch-Apertus]: first thing he did when he got up was shout "everyone back off" in capitals, and shoved away Theavus who wanted to help him get on his paws
01:36:00 To [Grinch-Apertus]: whatever he may have intended, people act on what he does. Not what he has in mind.
01:36:33 To [Grinch-Apertus]: He was violent, aggressive, vehement, narrow-minded and more loyal to the wife that clouded his mind with the magic that nearly got her killed, as well as being aggressive towards the crew member he wronged and those that jumped to help him
01:36:40 To [Grinch-Apertus]: he's done every possible wrong move in the book here
01:36:43 [Grinch-Apertus] whispers: because he was k.o. and had to realize what was going on his vision was blurry and he only heard them yelling and all in all he is jumpy when he was ko and wakes up)
01:37:08 To [Grinch-Apertus]: I understand myself, Grinch, trust me I really wish I wouldn't have had Theavus suggest a spar if I knew it'd lead to this
01:37:48 To [Grinch-Apertus]: was hoping it'd just be over and they'd be able to say "Huh, cheater." and move on, but with every single emote, it spiraled down further and further into a stream of utterly stupid mistakes
01:39:36 [Grinch-Apertus] whispers: (the problem here is, drake had no intention of protecting anyone. yes, he spoke for vyzin but also said he puts her in place. basically doing what the crew wanted to do. he was aggressive because almy pointed a gun at him and
01:39:36 [Grinch-Apertus] whispers: vy, and in before he was aggressive because he k.o. two times and had to realize two times what the actual fuck is going on)
01:39:51 [Grinch-Apertus] whispers: (everyone misunderstood him, everyone)
01:40:11 To [Grinch-Apertus]: he'll have a chance to explain himself, then, nobody is out to murder him. What I personally learned though
01:40:39 [Grinch-Apertus] whispers: (i got the feeling that almy will most likely try to push him off and claim the captains seat)
01:40:51 To [Grinch-Apertus]: is never to assume people to understand my intentions from my emotes. Especially in tense situations you must be extremely clear on what you intend, even if that sometimes means bending what'd be natural of a reaction to something that would be healthier
01:40:51 To [Grinch-Apertus]: to the situation
01:41:25 To [Grinch-Apertus]: instead of getting up shouting, he could've arose groggily, asking everyone to hold a moment and let him speak. Rather than tell people to back off from Vyzin, he could've told her to sit down, first, and then tell the crew to let him handle
01:41:25 To [Grinch-Apertus]: it
01:41:48 To [Grinch-Apertus]: every emote there was a perfectly clear and better and still fitting alternative to carry your message across without expecting everyone to understand your intent and go with it.