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  1. 5 tips to 'just be quiet':
  2. 1. neglect
  3. 2. ignore
  4. 3. forget
  5. 4. deny
  6. 5. disgust
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  8. Do these selectively and secretly.
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  10. examples:
  11. a. "I don't understand, can you explain again?" + oh ok
  12. b. provoke them emotionally and deny it
  13. c. be offended by their attempts to talk through your silence
  14. d. zone out into your phone in the middle of a convo
  15. e. pretend they're unable to deal with silence
  16.  
  17. extra:
  18. 11. act interested then make them realise that you don't care only after having them talk to you for a long time about something
  19.  
  20. they're thought you were interested in too, and again make sure they can't prove it, and also ensure that you say clearly but not
  21.  
  22. literally that it's their fault, after which you can deny that you ever said that.
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  24. 1. ensure there is distance
  25. 2. ask 3 questions involving their opinion on a topic of their interest, the 2nd of which is a yes/no question.
  26.  
  27. 3. confirm what they're saying by repeating their words, but omit information you would've known if you were trying to understand,
  28.  
  29. for example:
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  31. A:"I went to France yesterday, and I felt so bad. This guy hit me and dragged me off the streets. It took me a week to get out of
  32.  
  33. that house, it was terrifying. I'm glad you asked me about it, I really want to talk to you about it."
  34. B:"Yes, I know there's houses in France. I wanna tell you about this cool game."
  35.  
  36. they will try to clarify, in which case you're going to ask them to repeat their explanation sothey explain it a bit differently,
  37.  
  38. from which you will pick the most uncommon word and ask them to define it. annoy them by playing dumb when confronted with how
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  40. obvious it is based on context. if they remark on your character, you can pretend it's actually them, and then act like you would
  41.  
  42. be sweeter about it, without them being able to prove that you're doing this, ofcourse.
  43.  
  44. even if they catch on, you can pretend later that it wasn't the case, since they'll never be able to make a big fuss about it,
  45.  
  46. since they can't prove to others you're doing it. act like they have to prove it to others, then compare them to more forgiving
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  48. people, then before they get angry with you, act like you're forgiving them, then they'll get angry at which point you act
  49.  
  50. confused, shocked and frightened and hurt. pretend that you're as hurt as they are, and subtly imply that they can't be hurt,
  51.  
  52. because you haven't done anything, without them being able to prove that the words you're using literally state it. if they're
  53.  
  54. clever enough to see through this, keep playing the game. the only choice they have is to stay with you or leave you, because they
  55.  
  56. can't get back at you.
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