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- 5 tips to 'just be quiet':
- 1. neglect
- 2. ignore
- 3. forget
- 4. deny
- 5. disgust
- Do these selectively and secretly.
- examples:
- a. "I don't understand, can you explain again?" + oh ok
- b. provoke them emotionally and deny it
- c. be offended by their attempts to talk through your silence
- d. zone out into your phone in the middle of a convo
- e. pretend they're unable to deal with silence
- extra:
- 11. act interested then make them realise that you don't care only after having them talk to you for a long time about something
- they're thought you were interested in too, and again make sure they can't prove it, and also ensure that you say clearly but not
- literally that it's their fault, after which you can deny that you ever said that.
- 1. ensure there is distance
- 2. ask 3 questions involving their opinion on a topic of their interest, the 2nd of which is a yes/no question.
- 3. confirm what they're saying by repeating their words, but omit information you would've known if you were trying to understand,
- for example:
- A:"I went to France yesterday, and I felt so bad. This guy hit me and dragged me off the streets. It took me a week to get out of
- that house, it was terrifying. I'm glad you asked me about it, I really want to talk to you about it."
- B:"Yes, I know there's houses in France. I wanna tell you about this cool game."
- they will try to clarify, in which case you're going to ask them to repeat their explanation sothey explain it a bit differently,
- from which you will pick the most uncommon word and ask them to define it. annoy them by playing dumb when confronted with how
- obvious it is based on context. if they remark on your character, you can pretend it's actually them, and then act like you would
- be sweeter about it, without them being able to prove that you're doing this, ofcourse.
- even if they catch on, you can pretend later that it wasn't the case, since they'll never be able to make a big fuss about it,
- since they can't prove to others you're doing it. act like they have to prove it to others, then compare them to more forgiving
- people, then before they get angry with you, act like you're forgiving them, then they'll get angry at which point you act
- confused, shocked and frightened and hurt. pretend that you're as hurt as they are, and subtly imply that they can't be hurt,
- because you haven't done anything, without them being able to prove that the words you're using literally state it. if they're
- clever enough to see through this, keep playing the game. the only choice they have is to stay with you or leave you, because they
- can't get back at you.
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