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  3.  
  4. This checklist should be filled out by a Sub and provided to their Dom/Top
  5. before playing with them. This will    
  6. provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding
  7. common ground for play. Dominants    
  8. may wish to work through the checklist, to get a better handle on their
  9. specific interests. Switches should go    
  10. through the checklist twice; one persons Dom and Sub interests may be very
  11. different.    
  12.    
  13. For each item, you need to provide two answers:    
  14.    
  15.        For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you
  16. have ever DONE that activity. Mark    
  17.        N/A if it does not apply to your gender.    
  18.        For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that
  19. activity by rating it on a scale of    
  20.        NO or 0 to 5.    
  21.               "?" means you don't understand what the item is attempting to
  22. describe.    
  23.               NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a
  24. hard limit).    
  25.               0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that
  26. activity and don't like doing it (in fact,    
  27.               may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you
  28. would permit the Dominant to do it if    
  29.               it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").    
  30.               1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but
  31. wouldn't object if it was asked of    
  32.               you.    
  33.               2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no
  34. special appeal for you.    
  35.               3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an
  36. irregular/ occasional basis.    
  37.               4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to
  38. experience it on a regular basis.    
  39.               5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would
  40. like it as often as possible.    
  41.        Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only
  42. with your current sex partner(s),    
  43.        but not with casual play-partners.    
  44.        Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for
  45. your Dom to know in the    
  46.        margin to the right. For example under diapers you might wish to
  47. distinguish between "wetting" and    
  48.        "soiling".    
  49.    
  50. There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise
  51. stated, the Sub is the    
  52. recipient/target of the activity.    
  53.    
  54.                                    Experience, Willingness    Notes & Nuances
  55.                                      yes/no,    NO or 0-5    
  56. Play List  
  57.                
  58. Abrasion                         :  ?          
  59. Age play                         :  ?          
  60. Anal sex                         :  no  4          
  61. Anal plugs (small)               :  yes 4          
  62. Anal plugs (large)               :  no  4      
  63. "Anal plug(public under clothes)":  no  5          
  64. Animal roles                     :  no  3          
  65. Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)   :  ?          
  66. Aromas                           :  no  2          
  67. Asphyxiation                     :  NO I WILL NOT DO           
  68. Auctioned for charity            :  ?          
  69. Ball stretching                  :  NO I WILL NOT DO           
  70. Bathroom use control             :  no  2          
  71. Beastiality                      :  NO I WILL NOT DO           
  72. Beating (soft)                   :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  73. Beating (hard)                   :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  74. Blindfolds                       :  no  4
  75. Being serviced (sexual)          :  no  4  
  76. Being bitten                     :  no  1
  77. Breast/chest bondage             :  no  2  
  78. Breath control                   :  NO I WILL NOT DO   
  79. Branding                         :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  80. Boot worship                     :  no  0  
  81. Bondage (light)                  :  no  3
  82. Bondage (heavy)                  :  no  2  
  83. Bondage (multi-day)              :  ?
  84. "Bondage(public, under clothing)":  no  4
  85. Breast whipping                  :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  86. Brown showers (scat)             :  NO I WILL NOT DO   
  87. Cages (locked inside of)         :  no  2
  88. Caning                           :  ?
  89. Castration fantasy               :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  90. Catheterization                  :  ?
  91. Cattle prod (electrical toy)     :  no  0
  92. Cells/Closets (locked inside of) :  no  2
  93. Chains                           :  no  2
  94. Chamber-pot use                  :  ?
  95. Chastity belts                   :  no  0
  96. Chauffeuring                     :  ?
  97. Choking                          :  no  0
  98. Chores (domestic service)        :  no  1
  99. Clothespins                      :  no  2
  100. Cock rings/straps                :  no  2
  101. Cock worship                     :  ?
  102. Collars (worn in private)        :  no  2
  103. Collars (worn in public)         :  no  0
  104. Competitions (with other Subs)   :  no  1
  105. Corsets (wearing casually)       :  no  2    
  106. Corsets (trained waist reduction):  no  0
  107. Cuffs (leather)                  :  no  2
  108. Cuffs (metal)                    :  no  1
  109. Cutting                          :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  110. Diapers (wearing)                :  no  2   interested in trying
  111. Diapers (wetting)                :  no  2   interested in trying
  112. Diapers (soiling)                :  no  2   interested in trying
  113. Dilation                         :  ?
  114. Dildoes                          :  yes 3
  115. Double penetration               :  n/a
  116. Electricity                      :  no  0
  117. Enemas (for cleansing)           :  yes 2
  118. Eenmas (retention/punishment)    :  no  1
  119. Enforced chastity                :  no  1
  120. Erotic dance (for audience)      :  no  1
  121. Examinations (physical)          :  no  2
  122. Exercise (forced/required)       :  no  0
  123. Exhibitionism (friends)          :  ?
  124. Exhibitionism (strangers)        :  ?
  125. Eye contact restrictions         :  no  0
  126. Face slapping                    :  no  0
  127. Fantasy abandonment              :  no  1
  128. Fantasy rape                     :  no  3
  129. Fantasy gang-rape                :  no  2
  130. Fear (being scared)              :  no  0
  131. Fisting (anal)                   :  no  0
  132. Fisting (vaginal)                :  n/a
  133. Flame play                       :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  134. Following orders                 :  yes 4
  135. Foot worship                     :  no  2
  136. Forced bedwetting                :  no  2
  137. Forced dressing                  :  no  4
  138. Forced eating                    :  no  1
  139. Forced homosexuality             :  no  3
  140. Forced heterosexuality           :  n/a
  141. Forced masturbation              :  no  4
  142. Forced nudity (private)          :  no  5
  143. Forced nudity (around others)    :  no  5
  144. Forced servitude                 :  no  2
  145. Forced smoking                   :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  146. Full head hoods                  :  no  2
  147. Gags (cloth)                     :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  148. Gags (inflatible)                :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  149. Gags (phallic)                   :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  150. Gags (rubber)                    :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  151. Gags (tape)                      :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  152. Gas masks                        :  no  1
  153. Gates of Hell (male)             :  ?
  154. Genital sex                      :  ?
  155. Given away to another Dom (temp) :  no  2
  156. Given away to another Dom (perm) :  no  0
  157. Golden showers                   :  no  2
  158. Gun play                         :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  159. Hairbrush spankings              :  no  0
  160. Hair pulling                     :  no  0
  161. Hand jobs (giving)               :  no  3
  162. Hand jobs (receiving)            :  yes 3
  163. Harems (serving w/other subs)    :  no  2
  164. Harnessing (leather)             :  no  2
  165. Harnessing (rope)                :  no  2
  166. Having food chosen for you       :  no  0
  167. Having clothing chosen for you   :  no  4
  168. Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) :  yes 3
  169. Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus)  :  yes 3
  170. High heel wearing                :  no  5
  171. High heel worship                :  no  1
  172. Homage with tongue (non-sexual)  :  ?
  173. Hoods                            :  no  1
  174. Hot oils (on genitals)           :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  175. Hot waxing                       :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  176. Housework (doing)                :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  177. Human puppy dog                  :  no  2
  178. Humiliation (private)            :  no  3
  179. Humiliation (public)             :  no  4
  180. Hypnotism                        :  no  2
  181. Ice cubes                        :  no  2
  182. Immobilization                   :  no  0
  183. Infantilism                      :  ?
  184. Initiation rites                 :  ?
  185. Injections                       :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  186. Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage:  no  2
  187. Interrogations                   :  no  1
  188. Kidnapping                       :  no  1
  189. Kneeling                         :  no  2
  190. Knife play                       :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  191. Leather clothing                 :  no  2
  192. Leather restraints               :  no  2
  193. Lectures for misbehavior         :  no  1
  194. Licking (non-sexual)             :  no  2
  195. Lingerie (wearing)               :  yes 5
  196. Manacles & Irons                 :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  197. Manicures (giving)               :  no  1
  198. Massage (giving)                 :  no  2
  199. Massage (receiving)              :  no  3
  200. Medical scenes                   :  no  2
  201. Modeling for erotic photos       :  no  3
  202. Mouth bits                       :  ?
  203. Mummification                    :  no  2
  204. Name change (for scene)          :  no  2
  205. "Name change (legal, permanant)" :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  206. Nipple clamps                    :  no  2
  207. Nipple rings (piercings)         :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  208. "Nipple play/""torture"" "       :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  209. Nipple weights                   :  no  1
  210. Oral/anal play (rimming)         :  no  5  
  211. Over-the-knee spanking           :  no  1
  212. Orgasm denial                    :  no  1
  213. Orgasm control                   :  no  2
  214. Outdoor scenes                   :  no  3
  215. Outdoor sex                      :  no  3
  216. Pain (severe)                    :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  217. Pain (mild)                      :  NO I WILL NOT DO    minor pain is ok
  218. Persona training (in scene)      :  no  1
  219. Personality modification (RL)    :  no  1
  220. Phone sex (serving Dom)          :  no  1
  221. Phone sex (serving Dom's friends):  no  0
  222. Phone sex (commercial provider)  :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  223. "Piercing (temporary, play-pierce):"    ?
  224. Piercing (permanent)             :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  225. Plastic surgery                  :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  226. Prison scenes                    :  no  1
  227. Prostitution (public pretense)   :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  228. Prostitution (actual)            :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  229. Pony slave                       :  ?
  230. Public exposure                  :  no  3
  231. Punishment Scene                 :  no  1
  232. Pussy/cock whipping              :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  233. Pussy worship                    :  no  2
  234. Riding crops                     :  ?
  235. "Riding the ""horse"" (crotch tort.):"  ?
  236. Rituals                          :  ?
  237. Religious scenes                 :  no  1
  238. Restrictive rules on behavior    :  no  1  
  239. Rubber/latex clothing            :  no  3
  240. Rope body harness                :  no  2
  241. Saran wrapping                   :  no  2
  242. Scarification                    :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  243. Scratching - getting             :  yes 2
  244. Scratching - giving              :  no  2
  245. Sensory deprivation              :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  246. Serving                          :  no  2
  247. Serving as art                   :  no  3
  248. Serving as ashtray               :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  249. Serving as furniture             :  no  2
  250. Serving as a maid                :  no  4
  251. Serving as toilet (urine)        :  no  2   might enjoy
  252. Serving as toilet (feces)        :  no  1
  253. Serving as waitress/waiter       :  no  2
  254. Serving orally (sexual)          :  yes 4
  255. Serving other doms (supervised)  :  no  2
  256. Serving other doms (unsupervised):  no  2
  257. Sexual deprivation (short term)  :  no  2
  258. Sexual deprivation (long term)   :  no  0
  259. Shaving (body hair)              :  yes 1
  260. Shaving (head hair)              :  yes 1
  261. Skinny-dipping                   :  no  4
  262. Sleep deprivation                :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  263. Sleepsacks                       :  ?
  264. Slutty clothing (private)        :  no  5
  265. Slutty clothing (public)         :  no  5
  266. Spandex clothing                 :  no  3
  267. Spanking                         :  no  1
  268. "Speech restrictions (when, what) :"    no  2
  269. Speculums (Anal)                 :  ?
  270. Speculums (vaginal)              :  ?
  271. Spitting                         :  no  2
  272. Spreader bars                    :  ?
  273. Standing in corner               :  no  1
  274. Stocks                           :  ?
  275. Straight jackets                 :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  276. Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)     :  no  2
  277. Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)  :  no  5
  278. Strap-on-dildos (wearing)        :  no  3
  279. Strapping (full body beating)    :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  280. Suspension (upright)             :  no  2
  281. Suspension (inverted)            :  no  0
  282. Suspension (horizontal)          :  no  2
  283. Supplying new partners for Dom   :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  284. Swallowing feces                 :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  285. Swallowing semen                 :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  286. Swallowing urine                 :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  287. Swapping (with one other couple) :  no  2
  288. Swinging (multiple couples)      :  no  2
  289. Tampon Training (in ass)         :  no  3   interesting might enjoy
  290. Tattooing                        :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  291. Teasing                          :  no  2
  292. TENS Unit (electrical toy)       :  ?
  293. Thumbcuffs (metal)               :  ?
  294. Tickling                         :  no  2
  295. Triple penetration               :  n/a
  296. Urethral Sounds (metal rods)     :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  297. Uniforms                         :  no  2
  298. Including others                 :  no  2
  299. Vaginal dildo                    :  n/a
  300. Verbal humiliation               :  no  2
  301. Vibrator on genitals             :  no  3
  302. Violet Wand (electricial toy)    :  ?
  303. Voyeurism (watching others)      :  no  2
  304. Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)    :  no  1
  305. Video (watching others)          :  no  1
  306. Video (recordings of you)        :  no  2
  307. Water torture                    :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  308. Waxing (hair removal)            :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  309. Wearing symbolic jewelery        :  no  2
  310. Weight gain (forced)             :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  311. Weight loss (forced)             :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  312. Whipping                         :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  313. Wooden paddles                   :  NO I WILL NOT DO
  314. Wrestling                        :  no  2
  315.    
  316. -------------------------------Willingness quick-key:
  317. ? Don't understand this item.
  318. * I will do with current sex partner only.
  319. NO I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit).
  320. 0 No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit).
  321. 1 Don't want to do, but will.
  322. 2 Willing to do, but has no special appeal.
  323. 3 Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.
  324. 4 LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.
  325. 5 WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.
  326. ---------------
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