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  1. I care about you deeply and I respect you and your opinions. However, I'm getting very exhausted by you arguing with me about a decision I've made almost every time I log on. This goes back to one of our first disagreements months ago, where I explained that while I want you to have a big pull as an admin, at the core of all of this the group chat is something I started. I need to maintain a certain level of control in order to run it and I have reasons for the decisions I make. I don't want absolute control. That's not what this is about and I'm completely fine with you disagreeing with me and challenging me at times, and many times I do adjust my initial decision to an extent after hearing what you have to say. I've even retracted initial decisions once or twice after hearing you and other people out. It's not okay, however, that I still feel uncomfortable logging on because I don't know when you're going to completely disregard something I've said without talking to me again. This isn't just about today. For example, a week or so ago I logged into the admin chat and saw you say that if people couldn't get a hold of me within ten minutes that you'd go ahead and make group changes without talking to me, which is something I've said very bluntly numerous times I don't want being done. I may not be online all the time lately, but that's not an excuse for you to completely override the decisions I make when I am. Not without asking for my input. Again, I care about you and I think you have a big heart and you mean well, but this is exhausting me and damaging my trust. I need you to take my decisions more seriously and to talk to me before overriding them. And by talking to me, I don't mean continue to argue with me and tell me I'm being ridiculous if I still disagree with you after hearing you out. If it continues, I'm going to be revoking your admin status, because at this point it's affecting our friendship.
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