Andy

Andy,
I know you don’t know me. Maybe have heard what your told but regardless of what has been said or not I am reaching out to give you some information as I feel you are having someone lie to you or make a situation not as bad as it is because she doesn’t want to admit what she has done. Understand that what I am about to tell you is absolutely 100% the truth as I have no reason to lie about a situation because I was long gone out of that relationship. So let me begin!

    I am very aware of the complications you are having with your relationship and understand I am not happy to know about someone’s personal information. I did not dig for the information as it fell in my lap. On or approximately on Dec 28th 2018 I was on my way to Marion Iowa driving on the Marion bypass. In front of me about 10 car lengths was a black Cadillac Catera. Now I also know you are a mechanic from recently found out information. So you can understand that Cadillac cateras don’t really exist and are very uncommon to see. The vehicle blasted black smoke out from the rear as if it blew the engine or had major mechanical issues. Now I know your thinking what the hell has this got to do with anything. Well when Brittnee and I were together her sister had one of the exact same color cars. I passed the vehicle as it merged over to the shoulder of the road and I could not make out if the driver was Jesse or not. As I was able to I pulled off in a parking lot and tried to call Jesse and then with no answer I text her and never got a response so I moved on with life. This is where everything begins to change. I finally received a phone call from Jesse on the exact time and date of Dec 31st at 11:58 pm. Jesse was on the phone asking me what I was doing. It was new years eve. I made small talk with her briefly until about 2mins into the new year. She had asked me if I could talk to brittnee cause brittnee was very upset. She put brittnee on the phone and I spoke to her asking her what was wrong and she was crying. She told me little at this moment what was wrong and hung up on me. That’s fine as I found it weird that I did not talk to brittnee for about 4-5 months. Pretty much after the last time she did this exact same thing to me. So moving forward I didn’t press the fact that she hung up on me. I do still have strong feelings for brittnee so I sent her a message the fallowing day to make sure she was ok. She called me as she was staying at her sisters. I was on my way to my shop. And yes its my shop and I will get into why I am saying its my shop and not my dads shop. As she told you my dad was helping her buy her new car. Also not true. Anyways on the 1st I was on my way to my shop and picked her up from her sisters house. I took her and  her other sister out to Hardees and bought them breakfast. It is this exact time when, if you notice her having a black zip up Iowa hoodie now showed up. I gave it to brittnee when I dropped her back off at her sisters. She informed me in little to no detail at this point what was going on. I could just tell she was very depressed. Life moves on and a few days go by and now speaking to brittnee the last couple days on, thru text messages. She reached out and called me. Now this day is where I feel you need to know what happened. She asked me what I was doing and I had just gotten ready to leave my house to go to my shop. I told her I was going to go work and she asked if she could see me. I said well I have to go to target to get some baby things if she wanted to meet me there. We met at target and walked around target of the SW side of cedar rapids. We probably spent around a hour inside. I was done with what I needed and then we wanted to grab some lunch so I told her to meet me at El Pariso Mexican restaurant. We sat at the bar just her and I. I’m not sure if you recall this day but she was supposed to meet up with her grandpa at rumors bar around 3-4. I think he just got back from Florida this day if I remember correctly. Anyways brittnee then went into extreme detail on how unhappy she was in your two relationship. We talked well over 2 hours. We didn’t eat and only drank 2 jumbo margaritas. While she was explaining all the things to me that she was so unhappy about we got into conversation on why her and I aren’t together anymore. She broke down many things of your guys relationship that I was not comfortable hearing. It is across the board way more than I’m sure she is telling you bothers her. Starting from you on your phone all the time to drinking any chance you can to your dog brewer I think is his name to something about a shop that everyone smokes in to no affection to you never paying attention to her. There is a lot Andy that she told me and in that exact moment she said she was going to break up with you. She said she was going to take the money from her car and pay you for the trip you went to for that wedding. We also talked about that trip and didn’t feel it was really a birthday gift for her cause it was for the wedding and she down right didn’t want to go. I believe she even came to you and told you she didn’t want to go. Please know I wouldn’t know any of this information if what I am telling you is not the truth. Brittnee and I sat talking for a long time and one thing led to another and we were making out sitting at the bar. One thing about brittnee and I is that we both know we don’t have the ability to be around each other and only be friends. Brittnee and I left the restaurant and I walked her back to her grandpas ford explorer. We talked for another 20 mins about how much we missed each other and still love each other. She explained to me how so many songs made her think of me on the radio. Songs like This is it, Sangria, Speechless, Best shot, Incase you didn’t know, One number away. There was a lot talked about that she shouldn’t have been saying if she was in love with you. She told me how everywhere she goes she thinks about us cause we always were doing shit. We continued again making out for a period of time. She left there and went to go meet her grandpa at rumors. It was a few days and conversations later that we were talking about cars. I asked her why she wasn’t having you help her find a vehicle and she told me she wanted me to do it. I started having her look some vehicles up she wanted and gave her my opinion. I brought the vehicle to my shop that she now has and did a radiator pressure test cause it was low on coolant. I asked if you were going to be upset with her having me do it and that is when she informed me that she was going to just tell you that it was my dad helping her when in fact my dad doesn’t and never had any clue I was talking to brittnee or that she totaled her other car. He didn’t help not one bit. I went on the test drive and told her the rear wheels needed balanced. Everything she knew about the equinoxes to her new car was from conversations with me. She told me that you had to know she was talking to me cause she was staging certain things and it was honestly things I did to her in our relationship. She said she never had a lock on her phone and now she does. She also said she would set her phone a certain way and it would be moved certain times. She was setting things up on you. I did those things to her when she was with me and I even gave her shit for going thru my phone one time. Time after time I told her if she felt the way she did she needed to just end it with you. After the purchase of her car it didn’t end there. A few days later she called me and said she was going to put her check in the bank and she went to a atm or something and asked if she could come see me. I was out at my house in Atkins. She drove out there and we talked for about a hour or so and made out on my couch and she was all over me. She left that night and went to stop at the Atkins gas station and I believe it was after ten cause the gas station was closed. She called me after she left telling me that she lost her atm card and that the she was driving back to the atm she went to just to see if it was still there. I think you might have been working somewhere and she was supposed to pick you up at 11 or something. Not sure on that though. I talked to her over text day in and day out leading into your guys trip.  She would talk to me for an hour each day at work and I seen her again and it was the day before you guys left for your trip that she then came to me again. She said she needed to see me before she went on her trip. She didn’t want to go and wanted to tell you to have Nate go with you so she didn’t have to. She came to my shop that night and picked me up. In fact when I got in the car we were going to target on the north side of cedar rapids. When I got in the car and went to say hi to her she had her finger on her lips telling me to be quiet. Come to find out she was on the phone with you. Its messed up what she was doing and then when we got to target she was picking up swim trunks for you and I walked away looking at other things. She explained how she got some for you online and they didn’t fit or something. I came back and was like oh those are cool. Looking at the swim wear. She picked up a blue pair that I liked and put them in the cart for you. That is where I told her I felt really uncomfortable and walked away. It was wrong that she was doing what she was doing and keeping me a secret and doing what she was behind your back and you had no idea. She went and picked out a short sleeve button up for you as well. I believe she said she had to find something that was light colored. I believe she called you again. I was around during all this. I don’t feel good about it and that is why I think you should know the truth as to brittnee I’m sure as well as I know her didn’t tell the details to you as to what she was really doing. She then walked around and I helped her pick out a pink bikini to wear that she took to the dressing room and tried on and I also looked at her in it and I told her she looked beautiful. She holds a spot in my heart no one ever has. I was waiting for her with the cart outside the dressing room when she walked out and reached around me and kissed me while I was sitting down. I understand some of these details are pointless but the reason I am explaining this like this is because she is going to try to say I forced myself on her like she always does. Me sitting in a chair waiting and having her indivertibly lean down and make out with me is not me forcing anything at all. So to clarify I did not force anything. She then dropped me back off at my shop and said she didn’t want to leave me. We leaned the seats back and sat and talked for another half hour and she unbuckled her seat belt and crawled up in her seat and over to me and layed on me hugging me and kissing me. I told her to call me when she got to the airport. I knew every move that was made from the time she left to the entire flight. Andy the entire time she was on the trip she was telling me she was going to break up with you and didn’t know if she was going to do it there or when she got home. I talked to her hours each day when she was with you. I knew when you were golfing, fishing etc.. all the much that I knew on the last night there was two chocolate dipped strawberries and a bottle of Champaign. She wasn’t expecting you to be at some restaurant or something and had to let me go right away because you walked up behind her. The entire time she was calling me nonstop. She was talking to me the night of the wedding and telling me things as far as the wedding song that she was thinking about me the entire time and that I would have been all over her during the ceremony. They played the song, This is it. She said you wouldn’t even touch her and saying every day that she wanted me there with her. It was wrong of her to be doing what she did and was doing behind your back. Keep in mind no matter what I could never make all these points up to create a lie and I’m sorry for the extreme detail is my wish is not to make you mad but understand what she was doing. And my intention is not to get her back and ill explain that shortly. Bottom line when I think it was the day before you guys left she had all her plans set in stone and was going to leave you when she got back and had plan on Thursday to spend the entire day with me. Somethings happened at her work with some girl walking out or whatever. She asked me to come to her sisters that day but I was at work and couldn’t make it. I believe that was the day she did break up with you as she planned to stay with me. You didn’t react the way she wanted you to though. She then said she wanted to give you a second chance and I asked her time and time again that you for sure knew everything and she was saying yes that she never lies to you. She even said that you knew all along that she was talking with me, I found that to be weird. I thought to myself that if you knew in the detail I explained now that how could you trust or even want to be with someone doing what she was to you. I thought dam he is more understanding than me. But then it hit me that you possibly were getting a story that was dressed up a lot not to seem like what was going on behind your back was to the extent it really was. I could justify that. Like if she just said she reached out and talked to me I could understand that you could look past that but with the sneaking to see me to target out to lunch to my house making out every time I couldn’t wrap my head that a guy would just look past all that. 4 months ago she reached out to me doing this same thing but we only met up once and talked all the time. Then I sent her 2 dozen roses and a bear to her grandmas and she got scared and told me to leave her alone. It was the same thing though. She was unhappy with you and wanted to see if we still had feelings. We had bad parts of our relationship we both did things wrong. But for her to be in a relationship doing what she is doing to you behind your back is not right. Maybe its not my part but what she did to you was messed up and not only what she did to you but to me as well. She mentioned that you told her if she feels the way she does cause she was talking to me again. I will explain that the best I can. No I had nothing to do with her plans starting from Jan 1st. she came to me with a plan and I didn’t reach out to her. She came back into my life. I never called her she called me. She constantly was telling me she missed me so much and telling me she loved me after we were getting ready to get off the phone. Then once she talked to you, she wanted to say I was twisting things and this and that. In fact I was not and I wouldn’t do those things to someone I care about. So I had nothing to do with your guys relationship prior to Jan 1st and what she wanted to do she already had a plan and every part worked out. All the way down to how she was going to do it. She thought she could get it all out and just leave. She had her hammock there though and needed a truck to move it. I’m not blowing smoke up your ass one bit but if I was in your shoes I think you deserve to know the severity of what brittnee was doing to you without you knowing. I know a lot more but I don’t need to speak of that. Now if you think back for the month of January all this should make more sence. I got pist at her for sure when she went back to you not only for hurting me again but for playing both of us the way she was trying. I am very confident you didn’t know any of this and I think to have a healthy relationship people shouldn’t lie to the ones they talk about having babies and getting married to especially 7 months into it. She has done this every 3 months and I told her to stay out of my life cause she only hurts me and fucks with peoples heads and thinks its ok. Sorry to come to you with this but I figured you should know what went on as I would want to know if it happened to me.

                                                                                        Larry