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Why you shouldn't date people from the internet

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  1. If you can read through all of the following I'd appreciate feedback (and maybe friendship?) Maybe an outside male perspective can help me get my head around this. Yes I know I'll hear from jackasses making a joke of it, but maybe there's that one man who can relate and give me a little clarity. Maybe I should also mention that I'm a woman, and he's a man.
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  3. We meet online, chat and email for a while, then move to phone calls. You live in another state with a roommate and I live alone. I'm older. My children are grown and you have none. We seem to hit it off, but my radar goes off about a few things. I've already fallen for you, so I ignore my instinct. I pay your way here to be with me. The first week is good, but after that it goes to hell. You are cheating online, women are calling day and night,you deny it even though I've seen the screen a few times. You SCREAM at me over little things. We have huge fights at least once a week and I tell you if you're not happy then call one of your women and go live elsewhere. You apologize and say you want to stay with me. You have lied to me about so many things, both big and small. I catch you red handed talking to a woman on the phone. I tell you to get out and I leave. You panic and call the police, and they pick you up on an old domestic violence warrant. You're sent to another county to serve out your time. I find out from your mother that you have a serious mental illness and your relationships never last. I love you so I stick by you. I bring you home and you're grateful. Things change little by little, I catch you cheating a few more times, we fight, but it seems to stop after a few months. You've never had a job here, but I don't nag you. I'm fine with you not working. You love video games so I buy you a system, then another. My job doesn't have guaranteed hours, and we don't have alot of money. You pout a little sometimes when I say you can't have something. You want friends, but you're too intense and demanding of their time, so you end up pushing them away. I love you and I comfort you when they hurt your feelings. Your health isn't the best so I talk you into seeing a doctor and getting some things taken care of. You feel better. I keep loving you and you are affectionate and say you love me too. Then one day you go to clean out the storage room and never come back. No note, no nothing. I stayed in bed that morning because I'm not feeling well (I have health problems too) and you take some clothes, your coats, some kitchen appliances and our halloween pumpkin. I know someone came for you. Friends have heard rumors that they disregarded as gossip at first, but now they are telling me what they have heard, and the puzzle is coming together a little. You've found someone else and have gone to be with her. I don't understand. You said you were happy. You should have been a man and had a discussion with me or at least left a note. Do I file for divorce? Are you coming back for the rest of your things? Did you just need a vacation from "us" for a while? According to your mother I'll probably hear from you when this one dumps you at a homeless shelter like so many others have because they can't deal with your personality. I just want to know why. Others say that you had a good thing here and were crazy to leave. I stuck by you through some pretty serious bad times and you just walk. I'll be fine of course, I have family and friends around me and you've only hurt me emotionally, not financially. I need some closure. You owe me that much.
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