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I have a curious thought about this. I am a man, with a very present female inner gender. I feel most myself and natural and complete when dressed en femme. Nothing sissy, just pretty, neat, even a touch elegant, but definitely feminine, not jeans and a tee.

 

I've written elsewhere that I can sit and meditate and completely imagine my body is female. I even wondered if past or parallel lives have anything to do with it. And I am completely hetero, so I don't "switch" by imagining my anus is a vagina and my penis a ****. So my story about sex as a woman isn't about being penetrated ... and it isn't about directly stimulating the prostate either.

 

Can a man have a female ******?

 

We all know there's a difference from ************: a long stroke, the different feelings in the shaft and head for a man, and the difference between vaginal and clitoral ******* for a woman. Most men will know what it's like to climax without holding or stimulating the tip, and many of us will have experienced the delight of the different ways a vagina can hold us (ever felt gripped at the root and squeezed at the tip, but not in between?) and that ******* can feel different, like being sustained and low, or fast and desperate.

 

And have you watched, even a video, of a woman climaxing? Again it can be different, but does it look like it is for you as a man? Not quite. And why does it take so long?!! Has your hand ever been running out of steam, desperately hoping she gets there before you have to give up?

 

I think for women more is in the mind, and that's a clue to my question. And here's another clue: quite a lot of women actually don't like ****** because either they don't feel like the real thing or because it seems odd not to be attached. But my wife loves her clitoral stimulator (pocket rocket style but variable and quieter). So do I!

 

Instead of the traditional hand job, it takes concentration and focus. Real focus. But it's worth it.

 

Hold the **** stim firmly pressed under your tip. Vary the speed if you like, and the pulsing programs may help. Concentrate intensely on holding your PC muscles (girls, you know where they are!) and low abdominals tight (hips level), and keep your breathing shallow and faster than normal. With the right focus, you should be able to achieve a climax even without having some mental image or fantasy. But be kind: think of your partner if needs be, doing the same thing!

 

Keep your focus, your tension and your breathing, and you should achieve a climax. (Now you'll understand why your partner doesn't want you to pause and lose it.) It builds slowly and takes a while (recognise this?) but when the crescendo finally builds, it grips your belly, may shake you uncontrollably, it travels through you and takes the whole of your body. Let it. Be noisy if you're not speechless! Yes, you will *********, but don't stop, keep the **** stim at it, and see just how long you can make it last. Or surge again! You might be surprised!

 

Strangely, it doesn't take a full erection either: almost like it isn't necessary (so don't worry if the original hardness fades), as your penis lies up on your tummy simply pressed there by the vibrating tip. But the way in which the climax arrives and lasts is not like the normal thrusting male ******; the *********** itself is quite different, slower and more sustained, really powerful, and goes on and on. The feeling is as much inside you as it it in your penis: a real belly clenching, whole body tension.

 

It is very different from the normal hand job, and it does make you look react physically like a woman when she climaxes, and it does last a lot longer. With practice and mental control you can even do it with a lot less stimulation.

 

Is this my inner female sexuality being found? Can a man have a female ******?