<ul>
<?php
$args = array( 'numberposts' => 5, 'offset'=> 1, 'category' => 395 );
$myposts = get_posts( $args );
foreach( $myposts as $post ) :
	$parentID2 = get_post_meta ($post->ID, 'parentID', true);
	if ($post->ID == $parentID2) { ?>
	<li><a href="<?php the_permalink(); ?>"><?php the_title(); ?></a></li>
	<?php }
endforeach; ?>
</ul>