You connect it like this:
view from underneath:
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1-|* *|-2( 1 & 2 are connected inside)
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(Gnd or +)3-|* *|-4(Gnd or +)
5-|* *|-6(when activated connected to 1 & 2)
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(when Deactivated connected to 1 & 2)