<ul>
<?php
global $post;
$thePostID = $post->ID;
$parentID2 = get_post_meta ($post->ID, 'parentID', true);
$args = array( 'numberposts' => 5, 'offset'=> 1, 'category' => 395 );
if ($thePostID == $parentID2) {
$myposts = get_posts( $args );
foreach( $myposts as $post ) : setup_postdata($post); ?>
<li><a href="<?php the_permalink(); ?>"><?php the_title(); ?></a></li>
<?php endforeach; }?>
</ul>