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There is so much to say on this subject that I'm tempted to write a book, but for now I'll stick to the basics. Let's say you've just been cheated on/dumped (a strong adjective, but what's more appropriate for the feeling that comes with it?), or perhaps that ideal and perfect women with whom things were going so great, suddenly, out of nowhere, has adopted an attitude of complete indifference (which honestly can be even worse than being cheated on). What now? Well, first things first, get over the absurd concept that as a man you don't need others to rely upon emotionally. This is not some exclusively feminine need that men are exempt from: It is a human need, and part of true manhood is admitting to this need. Some of the most poignant, bonding, and validating moments of my life have been over a beer talking about how much it hurts to lose the girl you love. Accept this, and things will go much more smoothly. I guarantee it.