Is there a RPW consensus on legal marriage and "division of labor"? (self.RedPillWomen)

submitted 5 days ago by [deleted]

My queen, not princess, and I have taken a public sacred oath of devotion with all tradition except we have not legally married. In other words, we had a public wedding, but we have not applied for a marriage license. Considering the statistics, we took an "it's not us, it's you" attitude towards the law regarding marriage & probable divorce.

I've been lucky enough with investments so that we're both more or less stay-at-homes, using a pseudo-Spartan model that she has near total authority over the children before 8 years old or so, and then I manage the boys' education while she manages the girls'. After 8, she applies womanly knowledge I simply cannot grasp, and I'm mostly responsible for punishment which she prefers to compromise with gentle conversation. We come to consensus upon discipline as to what's punishable.

I still manage our wealth but have sliced off a significant portion for her into her legal name, a modern dowry if you wish.

We both agreed that we have only one priority: our immediate family. We agreed that we are co-equal, one intent, two minds. Where she has a natural advantage, she mostly acts according to what she thinks best all while informing me, maintaining my consent and vice versa.

Publicly, we both support each other yet hash out our own internal consensus sometimes ruthlessly in private. Once we've reached it, it's do or die until one of us "appeals".

How does this fit into the RPW model?