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  1. From: Jack Chen <tcc198898@gmail.com>
  2. Date: 7 May 2012 20:30
  3. Subject: Fwd: Unfaithful Chinese girl in University of Sussex UK
  4. To: tcc198898@hotmail.com
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  7. Dear Professors and staffs of University of Sussex UK,  
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  9. This is not a junk mail. The message here is to let people know, the integrity of an unfaithful, immoral Chinese girl named Xiao Se (Sese) who is currently studying for a Master of Arts in Media and Cultural Studies in School of Media of University of Sussex, UK. Please spend some time to read it through.
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  11. Photos of Xiao Se (or SeSe) – an unfaithful liar is attached.  
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  13. My name is Eric Pan, 31, the ex-fiancé of Xiao Se. I am going to tell you what this deceitful lair has done over past year.
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  15. Background:  
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  17. Sixteen months ago (Dec-2010), I and Xiao Se met each other in China. Xiao Se was such an excellent girl. She was petty, diligent and kind-hearted. We then both fell in love with each other without any reservations.  We soon lived together as a proper couple. A month later, I met her parents in GuangZhou (China) to inform her parents about our relationship.  I promised her parents that, I would make Xiao Se the happiness bride and wife in the world.
  18. Soon Xiao began expressing a desire to go to the UK to study but couldn’t afford it.  I am not well-educated due to family circumstances so I supported Xiao’s decision to study for a Masters course in the UK to further her education.  I agreed to pay for the education costs and all other expenses (£45,000 excluding gifts) and after her graduation, we would get married and have our child thereafter.
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  20. Xiao Se started to search for related information about Masters courses in the UK and worked hard for the examination (I worked hard to support her studies also).  I was very happy at that time; every day I came home, she would run from the study room to hug me and said sweet words to me.  I was madly in love with her and I trusted that we were both going in the same direction.
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  22. This happy life lasted for over 7 months (during the time, I gave Xiao Se cost of living, about £500 per month and later I gave her £1000 per month, because I was afraid she didn't have enough money to spend).
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  24. Later, Xiao se received a University admission notice from University of Sussex, UK. At that time, my feeling was full of happiness; I never thought she would change her feelings or have flings with others. I just worried about her life in UK being alone but I convince myself that one year would pass very quickly and after that we could live together happily.  During the year, we could meet each other four times, which basically is about 2 months a time.
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  26. I hoped to travel with her but I missed the opportunity due to visa delay. The 2nd time was at Christmas (Dec 2011) and the 3rd time was in March (2012) when she back China.  The 4th trip for me was planned for her graduation in June 2012.  However that was not to happen as in September 2011, I inadvertently discovered that Xiao Se and her ex-boyfriend were still connected, which I really couldn’t accept especially as she lied to me that she wasn’t.
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  28. Later she admitted that she was and as she told the truth I forgave her as I did not want to lose her.  I thought that after that 1st storm, we could overcome anything and that our relationship would be stronger but I was wrong…
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  30. In 23 March 2012, Xiao Se said she wanted to break up our relationship (after quarrelling over very trivial matters?).  I didn’t know why at the beginning and she wouldn’t explain…  I tried in vein to ask what had happened; I sent her an SMS but she never replied, I tried to call but she never answered.
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  32. I always blamed myself that I had hurt Xiao Se in some way.  After 23 March 2012, I did call her Mum to express I really do love Xiao Se and I hoped she could help shed some light in her decision however, she did not help.  She convinced me to give up on Xiao se.  At the time I refused.
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  34. I still wanted to rescue our relationship so on 27th March 2012 took a night flight alone from China to the United Kingdom.  I can’t speak English at all which actually is very risky to go by myself but I did not consider that, I just wanted to have Xiao Se back.  In Guangzhou I spent several hours in the supermarket buying those things Xiao Se likes to eat and packed the things into my suitcase.
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  36. I arrived in the United Kingdom on the 28th at 6:30 am. Luckily I have a good friend in Brighton who really took care of me and fetched me from Airport to the Campus that Xiao Se was in.  We arrived to the Campus and we knocked the dormitory door and waited for about 20 minutes or so but no one answered.  Later, my friend said to try the Library but we searched each corner in vain.
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  38. We went back to the dormitory and after about half an hour, a guy passed by and my friend asked him, “Do you know where the girls in room 323 are?”
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  40. He said he had not seen them for a couple of days but could give us a contact number of Xiao Se’s roommate.  Without knowing who I was the roommate told me Xiao Se was on holiday with her boyfriend!  I soon discovered that she was on a Chinese dating site looking to date men in the UK!  I was heartbroken.
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  42. (What I cannot accept is that on the 5 Feb 2012 – (my birthday).  Xiao Se commented in my Weibo (Chinese social network) saying, “Live with me forever”. Everything seemed normal before 25 February 2012.  I still had very sweet messages all the time yet she was with another man.  On Valentine's Day, I gave her a Valentine's Day love message and her reply was so sweet to me.  I had a video call on February 20 and she even discussed marriage, and when to have children, even decided the name of the child!)
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  44. Finally after waiting at the University all day we met each other at 7pm.  Xiao Se’s face was so cold to me; she said she had nothing to talk with me.  Later, after a quarrel, she agreed to go back to her room to have a conversation together, after that I think I finally realised I could no longer be with her.
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  46. I sadly said to her that I wanted some of the gifts back for memory, she first refused to do so but finally, she returned the white Iphone-4, the white Ipad and a MacBook Air. When I was about to leave, she stopped me and would like to give me a slap. I really did not understand what reason she could give for that slap. I was deeply hurt and sad at that moment.
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  48. So I called my Hong Kong friend to help me change the air ticket, I didn't want to stay behind in the place that really hurt me.  When I returned to China, I discovered lots of immoral messages and pictures of her in the computer, iPad and iPhone.  These images shocked me and I felt like a fool giving so much money, gifts and my love to a girl you just took advantage.
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  50. In turns out she was already in a new relationship as early as November 2011 spending my money going to the beach, zoo, movies, weekends away and staying in hotels.  She even concealed all of this when I came to the UK for Christmas!  I even discovered a love letter from her new boyfriend detailing a physical relationship all the while she was planning to marry me, she is a horrible person.
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  52. This isn’t about the money but the principle, she pulled me in pretending to love me to receive financial support, to receive expensive gifts worth thousands of British pounds and then as soon as her studies ended she had planned to disappear.  She certainly has proved to be unfaithful, immoral and without a conscience.
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  54. This is one girl who deserved an Academy Award – “The world’s greatest actress” – Shame on you Xiao Se!! (SeSe)
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  56. Please be aware that this girl is only interested in herself and will cleverly deceive you to get your money!
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  58. I have to emphasize that I’m not intend to smear Xiao Se. All of above is 100% true. I just want to tell you the truth of this girl and how devious she is. She is such a well-educated girl with good academic performance. But, what she has done is definitely unacceptable, unfaithful and immoral.  
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  61. Best Regards,
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  63. Eric Pan
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