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  184.                         This entry was posted on October 26, 2012<span class="byline"> by <span class="author vcard"><a class="url fn n" href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/author/oegukeen/" title="View all posts by oegukeen" rel="author">oegukeen</a></span></span>, in <a href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/category/about-korean-guys/" title="View all posts in About Korean guys" rel="category tag">About Korean guys</a> and tagged <a href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/tag/date-a-korean/" rel="tag">date a Korean</a>, <a href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/tag/interracial-relationship/" rel="tag">interracial relationship</a>, <a href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/tag/korean/" rel="tag">Korean</a>, <a href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/tag/korean-boyfriend/" rel="tag">Korean boyfriend</a>, <a href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/tag/korean-guy/" rel="tag">korean guy</a>, <a href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/tag/korean-man/" rel="tag">korean man</a>, <a href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/tag/love/" rel="tag">love</a>, <a href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/tag/relationships/" rel="tag">relationships</a>. Bookmark the <a href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/2012/10/26/dating-korean-guy-clash-of-prejudices/" title="Permalink to Dating Korean guy – the clash of&nbsp;prejudices" rel="bookmark">permalink</a>.                                                      <span class="comments-link"><a href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/2012/10/26/dating-korean-guy-clash-of-prejudices/#comments" title="Comment on Dating Korean guy – the clash of&nbsp;prejudices">20 Comments</a></span>
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  189.                 <p><a href="http://lovingkorean.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/innocent-man-korean-drama-vs-chang.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-826" title="Dating Korean guy - Innocent Man Korean drama vs Chang" alt="Dating Korean guy - Innocent Man Korean drama vs Chang" src="http://lovingkorean.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/innocent-man-korean-drama-vs-chang.jpg?w=266&#038;h=300" height="300" width="266" /></a>Dating outside your race unavoidably brings about stereotypes and prejudices. Unusual thing about dating Korean men is that it brings two sets of stereotypes that are completely opposing and mutually exclusive. I must admit that there is rarely a thing that can throw me off balance as much as prejudices. But this conflict of stereotypes about Korean men is so ironic it does nothing more than bring a smile of contempt to my face.</p>
  190. <p>On one hand, there is the stereotype of Asian man as a little emasculated guy that no woman in her right mind could find attractive. On the other hand, droves of screaming Hallyu fans bring about the prejudice that if you are dating a Korean guy it must be because of the twisted perception of a perfect Korean guy painted in dramas.</p>
  191. <p>So, I have a choice between being an asexual woman who only cares about guy’s personality or a crazed fan that doesn’t care about guy’s personality at all, as long as he is Korean? I would like to put those two groups of people in the same room so they can have a talk.</p>
  192. <p>Let me pause here and say that there is nothing wrong with falling for a guy because of fantasy you have, whether it comes from Korean drama, K-pop or somewhere else. Is it in any way less shallow to say you like tall guys, or blue-eyed guys, than to say you like Korean guys? Enter a room full of people and you will instantly be attracted to some while others won’t even register on your radar. Who is so self-aware to know exactly why they are attracted to someone?</p>
  193. <p>However, I am glad that in my case I have never even heard of K-pop or Korean drama before I met Kimchi Man, just so I can rub it in the face of anyone who dares confront me with those prejudices.</p>
  194. <p>I must admit that in my life, those prejudices come from online world. Offline I still haven’t encountered anyone who told me something like that. I don’t know if that is because they are not aware of the stereotypes, or just don’t dare say it to my face. I live in an almost exclusively white European country where other races are a rare treat. No one I know has heard of K-pop. No one heard the “Asians are bad drivers” stereotype (and I intend to keep it that way as long as my father is letting Kimchi Man drive his new car ^^). Not that I think Europe is less racist than America, it’s probably just more covert when races are not living side by side.</p>
  195. <p>So why did I choose a Korean man? Only thing I knew about Korea when we met is that they have efficient car factories, because my geography teacher had mentioned that incessantly. Who knows, maybe that’s why I was attracted to a Korean man? <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif?m=1129645325g' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  All I know is that it doesn’t matter why you are initially attracted to someone, what matters is the relationship it blossoms into. And that should only matter to the couple in the relationship. It certainly shouldn’t matter to random strangers.</p>
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  236.                                         October 28, 2012 at 4:19 pm                                     </time></a>
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  240.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>It is silly to fall for someone just because he&#8217;s Korean or French or American. Love is love and there will never be an answer to the question &#8220;why&#8221;. That&#8217;s why discussing love with a Korean man is just the same as discussing love with any kind of men. I think there are good and bad guys everywhere; Korean men are no exception. What is posted here is most of the time to read for fun, not for advice. Thanks Oegukeen for sharing.</p>
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  260.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>Well, we obviously disagree on some things, but one thing we completly agree about is that Korean men are humans and thus some are good and some are bad, no doubt about it.</p>
  261. <p>Thank you for giving your opinion.</p>
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  283.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>Good article Oegukeen!  There are some interesting points here but I think you&#8217;re missing a few things.  Those asian stereotypes that you&#8217;re hearing (and from whom?) seem pretty outdated to me, I think they&#8217;ve been getting some great PR for the last 10, 20 years.  You mention the internet and there is certainly a lot of prejudice that you&#8217;ll find online not just about people of ALL races, but of religion, ideals, skin color, etc., etc.  All my friends are into Korean guys and I live in Bloomington, Indiana so it&#8217;s not really a hotbed of open-mindedness.  I&#8217;m not sure about personality but they are certainly a lot easier on the eyes than plenty of other guys.  I think KPOP has certainly given them way too much limelight and I agree with you that most Korean guys aren&#8217;t like that.  Here&#8217;s how a friend described her two cents on this subject:</p>
  284. <p>1. Korean guys in thick glasses, tucked in dress shirts, and looking generally nerdy are, well, not very attractive.</p>
  285. <p>2. Korean guys with earrings, accessories, tattoos, and and a decent wardrobe can be very attractive.</p>
  286. <p>And if you think Korean guys are asexual, honey you NEED to go to South Korea.  It&#8217;s not Japan and it&#8217;s not China, they&#8217;re definitely not that shy over there.</p>
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  306.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>Excellent post,  I&#8217;m half-Korean and I live in NYC.  I used to get excited whenever I saw an Asian guy on a billboard over here but now I just shrug because it&#8217;s become a lot more common.  The prejudice that you see online is usually from insecure white guys who don&#8217;t like other races dating white women or insecure asian guys clamoring about how white women don&#8217;t date asian guys.  I wouldn&#8217;t be sitting here typing this if that were the truth.  On the flipside, my dad is definitely not like anything that you&#8217;ll see in a Korean drama. I wouldn&#8217;t be sitting here typing this if that were the truth. I hope whomever wrote this article realizes that a Korean guy is a guy first and Korean second.</p>
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  326.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>I must say that you both seriously misunderstood my article. I was just pointing out two stereotypes, both of which are so &#8220;ironic it does nothing more than bring a smile of contempt to my face.&#8221; That means I disagree with both of them.</p>
  327. <p>I am glad you see some positive change, but fact remains that Asian man &#8211; non Asian woman are many times rarer combination than Asian woman &#8211; non-Asian man. Don&#8217;t take my word for it, check out the statistics for marriages in the USA. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States#Census_Bureau_statistics" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States#Census_Bureau_statistics</a></p>
  328. <p>As far as realizing that a Korean guy is a guy first and Korean second, did you seriously not understand that I was being ironic when I said I maybe fell for a Korean guy because Koreans have efficient car factories???</p>
  329. <p>Maybe you have some prejudices of your own about women who date Korean men.</p>
  330. <p>P.S. When you say &#8220;over here&#8221; I assume you mean the USA. Don&#8217;t forget that not everyone lives in the USA (I am in Europe) and that USA has much higher interracial mixing than any European country. </p>
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  350.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>I didn&#8217;t mean to offend at all.  My mother is German and my father is Korean so I certainly don&#8217;t have any prejudices against non-asian women who are dating asian men.  I understand the irony, I just agreed with the poster because I believe that the whole &#8220;little emasculated asexual&#8221; stereotype is pretty much a thing of the past.  Some of my friends who had notions of these stereotypes were shocked when they studied abroad over there so I have a lot of views that connect with that post.  My sister, for example, swore off all asian guys and only wanted to date Italian men until she spent one semester in Florence and another in Seoul &#8211; she is now dating a Korean guy.  I think that what you&#8217;re getting at is an interesting juxtaposition of stereotypes that meet in the middle, that Korean guys, somehow, are viewed as very desirable and yet somehow, not that desirable at the same time. I&#8217;m also aware that asian guys date non-asian girls a lot less than the other way around.  My folks always tell the story of how dad was nearly disowned time and time again because he didn&#8217;t marry an asian girl.  I also think a lot of asian guys prefer asian girls more often than the other way around. It&#8217;s probably different for American born asians, and, looking at the rates of the link that you provided me, you can see that the marriage gap between genders when it comes to asian-americans isn&#8217;t as large of a gap as it is between all asians in the U.S. I am currently dating an asian girl, although, like my dad who had a preference for Korean girls, I am open to dating anyone and might just follow in his footsteps and end up with a non-asian girl.  I thought that this was a good topic and it&#8217;s something that I&#8217;ve always thought about because of my parents.  Again, I didn&#8217;t mean to attack this article, as a matter of fact, I thought it was really well-written and thought out.  I found this website because through my sister and there are some great points in it, I just have a lot of experiences with this subject so I just wanted to add my two cents  <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif?m=1129645325g' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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  370.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>Thank you for clarification. I didn&#8217;t think you attacked the article, just misunderstood it.</p>
  371. <p>I really do appreciate your two cents, and please keep on commenting. It&#8217;s always valuable to get other people&#8217;s opinions. But, like I said, I have different experience and don&#8217;t see that stereotype as thing of the past. I do hope it will be, though.</p>
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  397.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>Thank you <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif?m=1129645325g' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
  398. <p>I already wrote some of my opinions in the other reply, but I would just like to say I would find guy #1 more attractive than guy #2. It all depends on the taste, and I really don&#8217;t like tattoos. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif?m=1129645325g' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
  399. <p>Also, I don&#8217;t understand why you pointed out that Korean guys in South Korea are not asexual. I&#8217;m dating one, don&#8217;t you think I noticed? ^^ I was referring to stereotype about women who are dating Asian men. Maybe that&#8217;s what you misunderstood?</p>
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  421.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>I prefer guy #1 too. Honestly, K-pop stars in my eyes are just girlish boys with weird hairdos, tattoos and lots of jewelry and makeup. I&#8217;d rather go out with a nerdy who can be clumsy at times but are sincere and honest.</p>
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  444.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>As a woman who IS actually asexual, asexual people can be aesthetically or romantically attracted to others. Asexual people can still find people attractive, in the way that a painting is attractive or ugly. Many aces have romantic attractions and date, they may have a physical &#8220;type&#8221;, they just aren&#8217;t sexually attracted to anyone and many don&#8217;t want to have sex.</p>
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  464.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>Thank you for explaining. I am aware there are 3 types of attraction and only one of them is sexual. The stereotype about Asian men IS about their sexual attractiveness.</p>
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  484.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>I did know the stereotype, but you said &#8220;an asexual woman who only cares about guy’s personality&#8221; and a lot of asexual people DO care about their partners&#8217; appearance and would care about their partner being &#8220;hot&#8221; or &#8220;cute&#8221; or aesthetically appealing in some way. ^^</p>
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  504.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>I know what you mean. I, like anyone else, enjoy looking at aesthetically pleasing people even if they belong to a group that I am not sexually attracted to (in my case that would be women). </p>
  505. <p>I simplified it somewhat in order to fit that statement in one sentence. If you have a word that would better fit in that sentence instead of the word asexual, please let me know.</p>
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  531.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>do you have or plan to write a post on how Korean men are in reality in comparison to what K-dramas and K-pop likes to present? I am sure a lot of girls are basically in love with the idea of the perfect Korean guy you can see in dramas. Some reality check would be nice to have, I am sure most Korean guys are not Kim Jaejoongs or Won Bins and would be nice to know what Korean guys are really like. I heard that it is very rare chence for non-asian women to be considered by a Korean guy because the most important for them in a marriage is social background, education and being Korean. is this true?</p>
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  551.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>Yes, something similar was on my mind for a long time. Since I have only seen one Korean drama I tried to get a general opinion about Korean men from a forum, but people there didn&#8217;t seem to understand my intentions.</p>
  552. <p>Also, I believe negative stereotypes are far worse than positive ones so I would like to get those out of the way first. While it is good for mature adults to know reality, I see no harm for boys and girls to daydream and idealize. It&#8217;s a normal part of growing up.</p>
  553. <p>It is impossible just from personal experience to say what is rare and what is not. To my knowledge, there hasn&#8217;t been a poll in recent years asking Korean men how they feel about marrying non-Korean women. Korean men I know don&#8217;t care if she is Korean or not.</p>
  554. <p>I believe scientist found that in the majority of cases we are more likely to be in a relationship with someone from same socio-economic and educational level. That goes for all societies, not just Korean.</p>
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  576.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>Interesting post. I&#8217;ve been keeping track of your blog since I read and commented on one a while back. It&#8217;s been so interesting to see some of the questions people ask too. I admit that I&#8217;ve come to find several Korean men attractive, but I don&#8217;t harbor any illusions that they are anything like the fictional depictions of them in Kpop and Kdramas (don&#8217;t mind occasionally daydreaming about it though, haha.). I accept the fact that I&#8217;m probably going to fall in love with physical appearances first in the majority of instances, but I feel no need to be with a guy simply because he is Korean. Anyway, whenever I visit Korea it&#8217;s not going to be for the men or the music&#8230; It&#8217;s totally going to be for the food. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif?m=1129645325g' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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  596.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>Haha, I am definately going to Korea for the food too. Actually, even when we travel around Europe I make Kimchi Man take me to Korean restaurants ^^</p>
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  616.                         <div class="comment-content"><p>Haha, I might have to get a Korean boyfriend just so he can take me to Korean restaurants then. &#8220;I don&#8217;t want you for your body. I want you for the food.&#8221;</p>
  617. <p>My family doesn&#8217;t really do Korean food. They&#8217;ll eat sushi, but have to be pressured into going to a specifically Korean restaurant with me.</p>
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  638. <p>My only problem is that I&#8217;m not used to eating spicy food, so it&#8217;s painful. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif?m=1129645325g' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  But I&#8217;m working on it.</p>
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  1026.                                                 'blog_url': 'lovingkorean.wordpress.com'
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  1081.                                         if ( $( '#wp-admin-bar-follow > a span' ).html() == 'Following' )
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  1086.                                         if ( 'Be the first to like this.' == $wplcount.html() )
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  1090.                                                 likeText = 'You and one other blogger like this.' + prompt_type;
  1091.                                         } else {
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  1093.                                                 likeText = "You and <span class=\"wpl-count-number\">%%count%%<\/span> other bloggers like this.".replace( '%%count%%', count ) + prompt_type;
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  1096.                                         $wplbuttonlink.fadeOut(150, function() {
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  1099.                                                 $wplbox.addClass('liked');
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  1109.                                                         $wplavatars.children('a:first').hide();
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  1111.  
  1112.                                                 $wplcount.fadeIn(150);
  1113.                                                 $wplbuttonlink.html('<span>Liked</span>').fadeIn(150, function() {
  1114.                                                         $wplavatars.children('a:first').fadeIn(550);
  1115.                                                 });
  1116.                                         });
  1117.  
  1118.                                         if ( $link.hasClass( 'ab-item' ) ) {
  1119.                                                 $link.parents( 'li' ).append( $( 'div.wpcom-bubble' ).css( { left: '-83px' } ) );
  1120.                                                                                                 $( 'div.bubble-txt', 'div.wpcom-bubble' ).html( likeText + ' View <a target="_blank" href="http://wordpress.com/#!/read/likes/">Posts I Like</a> to see all the posts you\'ve liked.' );
  1121.                                                 $( 'div.wpcom-bubble' ).not('.wpcom-follow-bubble').addClass( 'fadein' );
  1122.                                                
  1123.                                                 setTimeout( function() {
  1124.                                                         $('body').on( 'click.bubble touchstart.bubble', function(e) {
  1125.                                                         if ( !$(e.target).hasClass('wpcom-bubble') && !$(e.target).parents( 'div.wpcom-bubble' ).length )
  1126.                                                                 hideBubble();
  1127.                                                         });                                    
  1128.                                                         setTimeout( hideBubble, 10000 );      
  1129.                                                 }, 500 );
  1130.                                         }
  1131.                                        
  1132.                                         if ( islikable ) {
  1133.                                                 if ( $link.parent().hasClass('ab-wpl-like') ) {
  1134.                                                         timeout = 1200;
  1135.                                                         $('#wpadminbar li#wp-admin-bar-wpl-like a').addClass('loading');
  1136.                                                 }
  1137.  
  1138.                                                 setTimeout( function() {
  1139.                                                         $('#wpadminbar li#wp-admin-bar-wpl-like').removeClass('like').addClass('liked');
  1140.                                                         $('#wpadminbar li#wp-admin-bar-wpl-like > a').removeClass('loading').html('<span>Unlike</span>');
  1141.                                                 }, timeout );
  1142.                                         }
  1143.                                 } else {
  1144.                                         action = 'unlike_it';
  1145.  
  1146.                                         $wplbuttonlink.fadeOut(150, function() {
  1147.                                                 $wplbuttonlink.removeClass('liked');
  1148.                                                 $wplbuttonlink.addClass('like');
  1149.                                                 $wplbox.removeClass('liked');
  1150.                                                 $wplbox.addClass('like');
  1151.  
  1152.                                                 if ( 'You like this.' == $wplcount.html() ) {
  1153.                                                         $wplcount.html('Be the first to like this.');
  1154.                                                 } else if ( 'You and one other blogger like this.' == $wplcount.html() ) {
  1155.                                                         count = 1;
  1156.                                                         $wplcount.html('One blogger likes this.');
  1157.                                                 } else {
  1158.                                                         count = $wplcount.children('.wpl-count-number').text();
  1159.                                                         $wplcount.html( "<span class=\"wpl-count-number\">%%count%%<\/span> bloggers like this.".replace( '%%count%%', count ) );
  1160.                                                 }
  1161.  
  1162.                                                 $wplavatars.children('li.wp-liker-me').remove();
  1163.                                                 $wplcount.fadeIn(150);
  1164.                                                 $wplbuttonlink.html('<span>Like</span>').fadeIn(150);
  1165.                                         });
  1166.  
  1167.                                         if ( islikable ) {
  1168.                                                 if ( $link.parent().hasClass('ab-wpl-like') ) {
  1169.                                                         timeout = 1200;
  1170.                                                         $('#wpadminbar li#wp-admin-bar-wpl-like a').addClass('loading');
  1171.                                                 }
  1172.  
  1173.                                                 setTimeout( function() {
  1174.                                                         $('#wpadminbar li#wp-admin-bar-wpl-like').removeClass('liked').addClass('like');
  1175.                                                         $('#wpadminbar li#wp-admin-bar-wpl-like > a').removeClass('loading').html('<span>Like</span>');
  1176.                                                 }, timeout );
  1177.                                         }
  1178.                                 }
  1179.  
  1180.    
  1181.                                 var qs = $link.attr('href').substring($link.attr('href').indexOf('?') + 1).split('&');
  1182.                                 var get = {};
  1183.                                 for ( var i = 0; i < qs.length; i++ ) {
  1184.                                         qs[i] = qs[i].split('=');
  1185.                                         get[qs[i][0]] = qs[i][1];
  1186.                                 }
  1187.  
  1188.                                 $.post( 'http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/wp-admin/admin-ajax.php', {
  1189.                                         'action': action,
  1190.                                         '_wpnonce': get['_wpnonce'],
  1191.                                         'blog_id': 30826218,
  1192.                                         'post_id': postid,
  1193.                                         'source': get['source']
  1194.                                 });
  1195.                                 return false;
  1196.                         });
  1197.                 });
  1198.         })(jQuery);
  1199.         /* ]]> */
  1200.         </script>
  1201.  
  1202. <script type='text/javascript' src='//0.gravatar.com/js/gprofiles.js?ver=201249ab'></script>
  1203. <script type='text/javascript'>
  1204. /* <![CDATA[ */
  1205. var WPGroHo = {"my_hash":"d5e088e6b0950dc4319857065f6fc7aa"};
  1206. /* ]]> */
  1207. </script>
  1208. <script type='text/javascript' src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-content/mu-plugins/gravatar-hovercards/wpgroho.js?m=1351637563g'></script>
  1209. <script>jQuery(document).ready(function($){ Gravatar.profile_cb = function( h, d ) { WPGroHo.syncProfileData( h, d );   }; Gravatar.my_hash = WPGroHo.my_hash; Gravatar.init( 'body', '#wp-admin-bar-my-account' ); });</script>        <div style="display:none">
  1210.         <div class="grofile-hash-map-d41d8cd98f00b204e9800998ecf8427e">
  1211.         </div>
  1212.         <div class="grofile-hash-map-d5e088e6b0950dc4319857065f6fc7aa">
  1213.         </div>
  1214.         <div class="grofile-hash-map-ee3c955bdabba615b83bc37cb2c9b5e2">
  1215.         </div>
  1216.         <div class="grofile-hash-map-47c7810322e2f5b01c174e19c3bb23e7">
  1217.         </div>
  1218.         </div>
  1219.  
  1220.         <div id="ab-reblog-box">
  1221.                 <form action="" name="reblog">
  1222.                         <textarea id="reblog-content" name="reblog-content" onclick="if ( this.value == 'Add your thoughts here... (optional)' ) { this.value = ''; }">Add your thoughts here... (optional)</textarea>
  1223.                         <label for="blogid" id="lblogid">Post to</label>
  1224.        
  1225.                         <select name="to_blog_id" id="reblog-to-blog-id">
  1226.                                                                                                                 <option value="30826218">Loving Korean</option>
  1227.                                                                                                                 <option value="43621729">Cute Korean Stuff</option>
  1228.                                                                                                                 <option value="42587964">Name of the blog</option>
  1229.                                                         </select>
  1230.        
  1231.                         <div class="submit">
  1232.                                 <input type="submit" name="reblog-submit" class="button-primary" id="reblog-submit" value="Reblog Post" />
  1233.                                 <span class="canceltext">or <a href="" class="cancel">Cancel</a></span>
  1234.                                 <input type="hidden" id="original-blog-id" value="30826218" />
  1235.                                 <input type="hidden" id="original-post-id" value="825" />
  1236.                         </div>
  1237.        
  1238.                         <input type="hidden" id="_wpnonce" name="_wpnonce" value="c1e841fa9a" /><input type="hidden" name="_wp_http_referer" value="/2012/10/26/dating-korean-guy-clash-of-prejudices/" />              </form>
  1239.        
  1240.                 <div class="arrow"></div>
  1241.         </div>
  1242.  
  1243.         <script type="text/javascript">
  1244.         var wpcom_reblog = {
  1245.                 request: false,
  1246.  
  1247.                 init: function() {
  1248.                         // Click reblog button on post
  1249.                         jQuery(document).on( 'click', '#wpadminbar .reblog', function(e) {
  1250.                                 e.preventDefault();
  1251.  
  1252.                                 if ( jQuery( '#ab-reblog-box' ).is( ':visible' ) ) {
  1253.                                         wpcom_reblog.cancel_reblog();
  1254.                                 }
  1255.                                 else {
  1256.                                         wpcom_reblog.show_reblog_box();
  1257.                                 }
  1258.                         } );
  1259.  
  1260.                         // Clicked reblog button on already reblogged post.
  1261.                         jQuery(document).on( 'click', '#wpadminbar .reblogged', function(e) {
  1262.                                 e.preventDefault();
  1263.                         });
  1264.  
  1265.                         // Click cancel reblog button
  1266.                         jQuery(document).on( 'click', '#ab-reblog-box a.cancel', function(e) {
  1267.                                 e.preventDefault();
  1268.                                 wpcom_reblog.cancel_reblog();
  1269.                         });
  1270.  
  1271.                         // Submit reblog box
  1272.                         jQuery(document).on( 'click', '#ab-reblog-box input[type=submit]', function(e) {
  1273.                                 e.preventDefault();
  1274.                                 wpcom_reblog.submit_reblog( jQuery(this) );
  1275.                         });
  1276.                 },
  1277.  
  1278.                 show_reblog_box: function() {
  1279.                         var jq = jQuery;
  1280.  
  1281.                         var $anchor = jq( '#wp-admin-bar-wpr-reblog' );
  1282.                         var pos = $anchor.position();
  1283.  
  1284.                         var $reblog_box = jq( '#ab-reblog-box' );
  1285.                         $reblog_box.remove();
  1286.                         jq( '#wpadminbar' ).append( $reblog_box );
  1287.  
  1288.                         $anchor.addClass( 'selected' );
  1289.  
  1290.                         var left = pos.left + 'px';
  1291.                         var width = '500px';
  1292.                         if ( jq( window ).innerWidth() < pos.left + 500 ) {
  1293.                                 // Most likely mobile or tablet
  1294.                                 left = '0';
  1295.                                 width = ( jq( window ).innerWidth() - 24 ) + 'px';
  1296.                         }
  1297.                         $reblog_box
  1298.                                 .find('p.response').remove().end()
  1299.                                 .find('div.submit, div.submit span.canceltext').show().end()
  1300.                                 .find('div.submit input[type=submit]').prop('disabled',false).end()
  1301.                                 .show()
  1302.                                 .css({
  1303.                                         top : ( pos.top + 28 ) + 'px',
  1304.                                         left : left,
  1305.                                         width : width
  1306.                                 });
  1307.                 },
  1308.  
  1309.                 submit_reblog: function( input ) {
  1310.                         var jq = jQuery;
  1311.                         if ( typeof this.request == 'object' )
  1312.                                 this.request.abort();
  1313.                        
  1314.                         input.attr( 'value', 'Reblogging...' );
  1315.                         input.prop( 'disabled', true );
  1316.  
  1317.                         jq( '#ab-reblog-box div.submit span.canceltext' ).fadeOut( 150, function() {
  1318.                                 input.after( '<span class="spinner"></span>' );
  1319.                         });
  1320.  
  1321.                         var note = jq('#ab-reblog-box textarea').val();
  1322.  
  1323.                         if ( jq('#default-reblog-note').val() == note )
  1324.                                 note = "";
  1325.  
  1326.                         this.request = jq.get( '/wp-admin/admin-ajax.php', {
  1327.                                 'action': 'post_reblog',
  1328.                                 'original_blog_id': jq('#original-blog-id').val(),
  1329.                                 'original_post_id': jq('#original-post-id').val(),
  1330.                                 'blog_id': jq('#ab-reblog-box select').val(),
  1331.                                 'note': note,
  1332.                                 '_wpnonce': jq('#ab-reblog-box #_wpnonce').val(),
  1333.                                 'reblog_source': 'toolbar'
  1334.                         },
  1335.                         function(result, status, jqxhr) {
  1336.                                 if ( ! ( "type" in result ) ) {
  1337.                                         alert( "Error: " + jqxhr.responseText );
  1338.                                 }
  1339.                                 else if ( "error" == result.type ) {
  1340.                                         alert( result.message );
  1341.                                 }
  1342.                                 else {
  1343.                                         jq( '#ab-reblog-box' ).hide();
  1344.                                         jq( '#wp-admin-bar-wpr-reblog' ).addClass( 'reblogged' ).removeClass( 'reblog' ).find( 'a:first' ).text( 'Reblogged' );
  1345.  
  1346.                                         var li = jq( 'li#wp-admin-bar-wpr-reblog', '#wpadminbar' ),
  1347.                                                 left = 72;
  1348.  
  1349.                                         li.append( jq( 'div.wpcom-bubble' ).css( { left: '-' + left + 'px' } ) );
  1350.                                         jq( 'div.bubble-txt', 'div.wpcom-bubble' ).html( result.message );
  1351.                                         jq( 'div.wpcom-bubble' ).addClass( 'fadein' );
  1352.                                         setTimeout( function() {
  1353.                                                 jq('body').on( 'click.bubble touchstart.bubble', function(e) {
  1354.                                                         if ( !jq(e.target).hasClass('wpcom-bubble') && !jq(e.target).parents( 'div.wpcom-bubble' ).length )
  1355.                                                                 hideBubble();
  1356.                                                 });
  1357.                                                 setTimeout( hideBubble, 10000 );
  1358.                                         }, 500 );
  1359.                                 }
  1360.                         }, 'json' );
  1361.                 },
  1362.  
  1363.                 cancel_reblog: function() {
  1364.                         jQuery( '#ab-reblog-box' ).hide();
  1365.                         jQuery( '#wp-admin-bar-wpr-reblog' ).removeClass( 'selected' );
  1366.                 }
  1367.         };
  1368.  
  1369.         wpcom_reblog.init();
  1370.         </script>
  1371.         <style type="text/css">
  1372.         #TB_window, #TB_overlay  {
  1373.                 z-index: 99998; /* One less than the Toolbar, pulls us infront of Theme items */
  1374.         }
  1375.         #TB_load {
  1376.                 z-index: 99999;
  1377.         }
  1378.         #TB_ajaxContent {
  1379.                 overflow-x: hidden;
  1380.         }
  1381.         #TB_window {
  1382.                 position: absolute;
  1383.         }
  1384.         #TB_overlay {
  1385.                 background-image: none;
  1386.                 background-color: #333;
  1387.                 -ms-filter: "progid:DXImageTransform.Microsoft.Alpha(Opacity=88)";
  1388.                 filter: alpha(opacity=88);
  1389.                 -moz-opacity: 0.88;
  1390.                 opacity: 0.88;
  1391.         }
  1392.         #report-form {
  1393.                 max-width: 600px;
  1394.                 direction: ltr;
  1395.         }
  1396.         #report-form .report-url {
  1397.                 width: 100%;
  1398.                 max-width: 450px;
  1399.         }
  1400.         #report-form a, #report-form a:visited {
  1401.                 color: #1E8CBE;
  1402.                 text-decoration: underline;
  1403.         }
  1404.         #report-form div {
  1405.                 padding: 8px;
  1406.                 font-size: 1.1em;
  1407.                 line-height: 20px;
  1408.         }
  1409.         #report-form p {
  1410.                 font-size: 13px;
  1411.                 margin-bottom: 1em;
  1412.         }
  1413.         #report-form h3 {
  1414.                 margin: 10px 0 15px 0;
  1415.                 clear: both;
  1416.                 padding-bottom: 10px;
  1417.                 border-bottom: 1px solid #E5E5E5;
  1418.                 font-size: 24px;
  1419.                 font-family: sans-serif;
  1420.                 font-weight:300;
  1421.         }
  1422.         #report-form label {
  1423.                 font-size: 13px;
  1424.         }
  1425.         #report-form .step-2-details label {
  1426.                 display: block;
  1427.         }
  1428.         #report-form textarea {
  1429.                 margin-top: 10px;
  1430.                 width: 100%;
  1431.                 max-width: 450px;
  1432.                 height: 100px;
  1433.         }
  1434.         #report-form .report-actions {
  1435.                 margin-top: 15px;
  1436.         }
  1437.         .entrytext .report-actions .tb-cancel { /* For when form is displayed in a static page */
  1438.                 display:none !important;
  1439.         }
  1440.         #TB_ajaxContent .report-actions .tb-cancel{
  1441.                 display: block;
  1442.                 float: left;
  1443.                 padding-top:8px;
  1444.         }
  1445.         #report-form .button-primary {
  1446.                 cursor: pointer;
  1447.                 font-size: 13px;
  1448.                 font-family: 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;
  1449.                 text-decoration: none;
  1450.                 height: auto;
  1451.                 line-height: 1;
  1452.                 padding: .6em 1.2em;
  1453.                 font-weight: 300;
  1454.                 border: none;
  1455.                 -moz-border-radius: 3px;
  1456.                 -webkit-border-radius: 3px;
  1457.                 -o-border-radius: 3px;
  1458.                 -ms-border-radius: 3px;
  1459.                 border-radius: 3px;
  1460.                 color: white;
  1461.                 text-shadow: 0 -1px 0 rgba(0, 116, 162, 0.8);
  1462.                 background-color: #2EA2CC;
  1463.                 background-image: -moz-linear-gradient(top, #1E8CBE 0%, #0074A2 100%);
  1464.                 background-image: -webkit-linear-gradient(top, #1E8CBE 0%,#0074A2 100%);
  1465.                 background-image: -ms-linear-gradient(top, #1E8CBE 0%,#0074A2 100%);
  1466.                 background-image: -o-linear-gradient(top, #1E8CBE 0%,#0074A2 100%);
  1467.                 background-image: linear-gradient(top, #1E8CBE 0%,#0074A2 100%);
  1468.                 -moz-box-shadow: inset 0 1px 0 rgba(120,200,230,0.5);
  1469.                 -webkit-box-shadow: inset 0 1px 0 rgba(120, 200, 230, 0.5);
  1470.                 -o-box-shadow: inset 0 1px 0 rgba(120,200,230,0.5);
  1471.                 -ms-box-shadow: inset 0 1px 0 rgba(120,200,230,0.5);
  1472.                 box-shadow: inset 0 1px 0 rgba(120, 200, 230, 0.5);
  1473.                 float: right;
  1474.         }
  1475.         #report-form .button-primary[disabled],#report-form .button-primary:disabled {
  1476.                 color: #AAA !important;
  1477.                 border-color: #DDD !important;
  1478.                 background: #EEE !important;
  1479.                 text-shadow: none;
  1480.                 box-shadow: none;
  1481.         }
  1482.         #report-form .button-primary[disabled] a,#report-form .button-primary:disabled a {
  1483.                 cursor: disabled;
  1484.         }
  1485.         #report-form input[type="radio"] {
  1486.                 margin-right: 5px;
  1487.         }
  1488.         #report-confirm {
  1489.                 margin: 150px auto 250px;
  1490.                 text-align: center;
  1491.                 display: none;
  1492.         }
  1493.         #report-form .required {
  1494.                 color: #f00;
  1495.         }
  1496.         @media screen and (max-width: 630px) {
  1497.                 #TB_window, #TB_ajaxContent {
  1498.                         width: 96%!important;
  1499.                 }
  1500.                 #TB_window {
  1501.                         position: absolute;
  1502.                         top: 0!important;
  1503.                         left: 0!important;
  1504.                         margin-left: 2%!important;
  1505.                         margin-top: 100px!important;
  1506.                 }
  1507.         }
  1508.         </style>
  1509.                         <script>
  1510.                 jQuery(document).ready( function($){
  1511.  
  1512.                         var tosform = {};
  1513.                         tosform.loaded = false;
  1514.  
  1515.                         tosform.setup  = function() {
  1516.  
  1517.                                 tosform.report_type ='';
  1518.                                 tosform.ajaxurl = 'http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/wp-admin/admin-ajax.php';
  1519.  
  1520.                                 tosform.$step1 = $( '#report-step-1' );
  1521.                                 tosform.$types = tosform.$step1.find( 'input:radio' );
  1522.                                 tosform.$step2 = $( '#report-step-2' );
  1523.                                 tosform.$step2_details = $( '.step-2-details' );
  1524.                                 tosform.$next = $( '#step1-submit' );
  1525.                                 tosform.$submit = $( '#step2-submit' );
  1526.                                 tosform.$report_url = $('#report-url');
  1527.                                 tosform.tm_fields = '.trademark-report';
  1528.                                 tosform.$step3 = $( '#report-confirm' );
  1529.  
  1530.                                 tosform.$step3.hide();
  1531.                                 tosform.$step2.hide();
  1532.                                 tosform.$step1.show();
  1533.                                 tosform.$step2_details.hide();
  1534.                                 tosform.$types.attr( 'checked', false );
  1535.                                 tosform.$next.attr( 'disabled', true );
  1536.                                 tosform.$submit.attr( 'disabled', true );
  1537.                         }
  1538.  
  1539.                         tosform.setup();
  1540.  
  1541.                         // Enable continue button when an option is selected, if url has been entered
  1542.                         $(document).on( 'change.tos_report_form', '#report-step-1 input:radio', function(){
  1543.                                 tosform.report_type = tosform.$types.filter( ':checked' ).val();
  1544.                                 if ( $.trim( tosform.$report_url.val() ).length != 0 && tosform.report_type.length != 0 )
  1545.                                         tosform.$next.attr( 'disabled', false );
  1546.                                 else
  1547.                                         tosform.$next.attr( 'disabled', true );
  1548.                         });
  1549.  
  1550.                         // Enable continue button when a url has been entered, if an option has been selected
  1551.                         $(document).on( 'change.tos_report_form', '#report-url', function(){
  1552.                                 if ( $.trim( tosform.report_type.length != 0 && tosform.$report_url.val() ).length != 0 )
  1553.                                         tosform.$next.attr( 'disabled', false );
  1554.                                 else
  1555.                                         tosform.$next.attr( 'disabled', true );
  1556.                         });
  1557.  
  1558.                         // Move to step 2
  1559.                         $(document).on( 'click.tos_report_form', '#step1-submit', function(){
  1560.                                 $( '#report-step-1' ).fadeOut( 'fast', function(){
  1561.                                         tosform.report_type = tosform.$types.filter( ':checked' ).val();
  1562.                                         tosform.$step2.fadeIn( 'fast' );
  1563.                                         // Show step 2 description depending on type of report
  1564.                                         tosform.$step2_details.hide();
  1565.                                         $( '#step-2-' + tosform.report_type).show();
  1566.                                         $( '#TB_ajaxContent' ).css( 'height', 'auto' );
  1567.                                 });
  1568.                         });
  1569.  
  1570.                         // Enable form submission when reason textarea is field
  1571.                         $(document).on( 'change.tos_report_form input.tos_report_form paste.tos_report_form', 'textarea.step-2-confirm', function(){
  1572.  
  1573.                                 if ( $.trim( $(this).val() ).length != 0 )
  1574.                                         tosform.$submit.attr( 'disabled', false );
  1575.                                 else
  1576.                                         tosform.$submit.attr( 'disabled', true );
  1577.                         });
  1578.  
  1579.                         // TM report: enable form submission when no field is empty
  1580.                         $(document).on( 'change.tos_report_form input.tos_report_form paste.tos_report_form', tosform.tm_fields, function(){
  1581.                                 empty = false;
  1582.  
  1583.                                 $( tosform.tm_fields ).each(function(){
  1584.                                         if ( $.trim( $(this).val().length ) == 0 ) {
  1585.                                                 empty = true;
  1586.                                                 return false; // break out of .each
  1587.                                         }
  1588.                                 });
  1589.  
  1590.                                 if ( empty || ! $( '#trademark-authorization' ).is( ':checked' ) )
  1591.                                         tosform.$submit.attr( 'disabled', true );
  1592.                                 else
  1593.                                         tosform.$submit.attr( 'disabled', false );
  1594.                         });
  1595.  
  1596.                         // close window on cancel button click or overlay click
  1597.                         $(document).on( 'click.tos_report_form', '.tb-cancel, #TB_overlay', function(e) {
  1598.                                 e.preventDefault();
  1599.                                 tb_remove();
  1600.                         });
  1601.  
  1602.                         // close window on 'esc' keypress
  1603.                         $(document).keyup( function(e) {
  1604.                                 if (e.keyCode == 27) {
  1605.                                         tb_remove();
  1606.                                 }
  1607.                         });
  1608.  
  1609.                         // open the form
  1610.                         $(document).on( 'click.tos_report_form', '#wp-admin-bar-wpcom_report_url', function(e){
  1611.                                 e.preventDefault();
  1612.  
  1613.                                 tb_show( "Report this content", '#TB_inline?height=450&width=auto&inlineId=report-form-window&modal=true', '' );
  1614.  
  1615.                                 if ( ! tosform.loaded ) {
  1616.                                         $( '#TB_ajaxContent' ).spin( 'large' );
  1617.                                         $.ajax( {
  1618.                                                 url: tosform.ajaxurl,
  1619.                                                 data : {
  1620.                                                         action: 'tos_form',
  1621.                                                         post_id: '825',
  1622.                                                         report_url: 'http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/2012/10/26/dating-korean-guy-clash-of-prejudices'
  1623.                                                 },
  1624.                                                 success: function( form ) {
  1625.                                                         $( '#TB_ajaxContent' ).html( form ).css( 'height', 'auto' );
  1626.                                                         tosform.setup();
  1627.                                                         tosform.loaded = true;
  1628.                                                         },
  1629.                                                 xhrFields: {
  1630.                                                         withCredentials: true
  1631.                                                 }
  1632.                                                 } );
  1633.                                 } else {
  1634.                                         $( '#TB_ajaxContent .spinner' ).remove();
  1635.                                         tosform.setup();
  1636.                                 }
  1637.  
  1638.                                 return false;
  1639.                         });
  1640.  
  1641.                         // submit the form
  1642.                         $(document).on( 'submit.tos_report_form', '#report-form', function(e){
  1643.                                 e.preventDefault();
  1644.  
  1645.                                 // set the reason according to the form type
  1646.                                 $( '#report-form input[name=reason]' ).val( $( '#confirm-' + tosform.report_type ).val() );
  1647.                                 var formData = $( '#report-form' ).serialize();
  1648.                                 $.ajax( {
  1649.                                         url: tosform.ajaxurl,
  1650.                                         data : formData,
  1651.                                         type : 'POST',
  1652.                                         xhrFields: {
  1653.                                                 withCredentials: true
  1654.                                         }
  1655.                                 });
  1656.                                 tosform.$step2.hide();
  1657.                                 tosform.$step3.show();
  1658.                                 $( '#TB_ajaxContent' ).spin( 'large' );
  1659.  
  1660.                                 setTimeout(function(){
  1661.                                         tosform.$step3.hide();
  1662.                                         tb_remove();
  1663.                                 }, 2000);
  1664.  
  1665.                         })
  1666.  
  1667.                 });
  1668.                 </script>
  1669.                                 <div id="report-form-window" style="display:none;">
  1670.                 </div>
  1671.                 <script type='text/javascript'>
  1672. /* <![CDATA[ */
  1673. var HighlanderComments = {"loggingInText":"Logging In\u2026","submittingText":"Posting Comment\u2026","postCommentText":"Post Comment","connectingToText":"Connecting to %s","commentingAsText":"%1$s: You are commenting using your %2$s account.","logoutText":"Log Out","loginText":"Log In","connectURL":"http:\/\/lovingkorean.wordpress.com\/public.api\/connect\/?action=request","logoutURL":"http:\/\/lovingkorean.wordpress.com\/wp-login.php?action=logout&_wpnonce=8ec14c0e08","homeURL":"http:\/\/lovingkorean.wordpress.com\/","postID":"825","gravDefault":"identicon","enterACommentError":"Please enter a comment","enterEmailError":"Please enter your email address here","invalidEmailError":"Invalid email address","enterAuthorError":"Please enter your name here","gravatarFromEmail":"This picture will show whenever you leave a comment. Click to customize it.","logInToExternalAccount":"Log in to use details from one of these accounts.","change":"Change","changeAccount":"Change Account","comment_registration":"","userIsLoggedIn":"1","isJetpack":"0"};
  1674. /* ]]> */
  1675. </script>
  1676. <script type='text/javascript' src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-content/mu-plugins/highlander-comments/script.js?m=1352785702g'></script>
  1677.  
  1678.         <script type="text/javascript">
  1679.                 WPCOM_sharing_counts = {"http:\/\/lovingkorean.wordpress.com\/2012\/10\/26\/dating-korean-guy-clash-of-prejudices\/":825}       </script>
  1680. <script type='text/javascript' src='http://s2.wp.com/wp-content/mu-plugins/post-flair/sharing/sharing.js?m=1349904728g'></script>
  1681.                 <script type="text/javascript" charset="utf-8">
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  1915.                 <li id="wp-admin-bar-blog-43621729-c"><a class="ab-item"  href="http://cutekoreanstuff.wordpress.com/wp-admin/edit-comments.php">Manage Comments</a>            </li>
  1916.                 <li id="wp-admin-bar-blog-43621729-v"><a class="ab-item"  href="http://cutekoreanstuff.wordpress.com">Read Blog</a>             </li></ul></div>                </li>
  1917.                 <li id="wp-admin-bar-blog-42587964" class="menupop"><a class="ab-item"  aria-haspopup="true" href="http://test123blogtest123.wordpress.com/"><img src="http://s2.wp.com/i/wpmini-blue.png?m=1311732102g" alt="Blavatar" width="16" height="16" />Name of the blog</a><div class="ab-sub-wrapper"><ul id="wp-admin-bar-blog-42587964-default" class="ab-submenu">
  1918.                 <li id="wp-admin-bar-blog-42587964-d"><a class="ab-item"  href="http://test123blogtest123.wordpress.com/wp-admin/">Dashboard</a>                </li>
  1919.                 <li id="wp-admin-bar-blog-42587964-n"><a class="ab-item"  href="http://test123blogtest123.wordpress.com/wp-admin/post-new.php">New Post</a>             </li>
  1920.                 <li id="wp-admin-bar-blog-42587964-s"><a class="ab-item"  href="http://wordpress.com/#!/my-stats/?blog=42587964">Site Stats</a>         </li>
  1921.                 <li id="wp-admin-bar-blog-42587964-c"><a class="ab-item"  href="http://test123blogtest123.wordpress.com/wp-admin/edit-comments.php">Manage Comments</a>         </li>
  1922.                 <li id="wp-admin-bar-blog-42587964-v"><a class="ab-item"  href="http://test123blogtest123.wordpress.com">Read Blog</a>          </li></ul></div>                </li></ul></div>                </li>
  1923.                 <li id="wp-admin-bar-notes" class="menupop"><div class="ab-item ab-empty-item" ><span id="wpnt-notes-unread-count" class="wpnt-loading wpn-read">
  1924.                                         <span class="noticon noticon-notification" /></span>
  1925.                                         </span></div><div id="wpnt-notes-panel" style="display:none"><div class="wpnt-notes-panel-header"><span class="wpnt-notes-header">Notifications</span><span class="wpnt-notes-panel-link"></span></div></div>           </li>
  1926.                 <li id="wp-admin-bar-ab-new-post"><a class="ab-item"  href="http://wordpress.com/#!/post/">New Post</a>         </li></ul>                      </div>
  1927.                         <a class="screen-reader-shortcut" href="http://lovingkorean.wordpress.com/wp-login.php?action=logout&#038;_wpnonce=8ec14c0e08">Log Out</a>
  1928.                 </div>
  1929.  
  1930.                
  1931. <script type="text/javascript">
  1932. /* <![CDATA[ */
  1933. var clickDebugLink;
  1934.  
  1935. jQuery(document).ready( function($) {
  1936.         var single = true, w = 1000,
  1937.                 supe = false;
  1938.  
  1939.         $(document.body).load(function(){ $('#wpadminbar img.grav-hashed').removeClass('grav-hashed'); }); // hack to hide the gravatar hovercard
  1940.  
  1941.         if ( single && supe )
  1942.                 w = 1385;
  1943.         else if ( supe )
  1944.                 w = 1200;
  1945.  
  1946.         // debug bar extra
  1947.         clickDebugLink = function( parent_id, obj ) {
  1948.  
  1949.                 $('#'+parent_id).children('div').hide();
  1950.  
  1951.                 document.getElementById( obj.href.substr( obj.href.indexOf( '#' ) + 1 ) ).style.display = 'block';
  1952.                 $( obj.href.substr( obj.href.indexOf( '#' ) ) ).show()
  1953.  
  1954.                 $(obj).parent().addClass('current').siblings('li').removeClass('current');
  1955.  
  1956.                 return false;
  1957.         };
  1958.  
  1959.         $('#wpadminbar li ul').each( function(i, el) {
  1960.  
  1961.                 // DISABLE SCROLLING MENUS
  1962.                 // @todo: Update scrolling menus for 3.3.
  1963.                 return;
  1964.  
  1965.                 var ul = $(el), li = ul.children('li').not('.adminbar-handle, #wp-admin-bar-my-account-info'),
  1966.                         handle, index = 0, step = 3, len = li.length, size;
  1967.  
  1968.                 if ( 'wp-admin-bar-my-account-with-avatar' == $( this ).parent().attr( 'id' ) )
  1969.                         size = Math.round( ( $( window ).height() - 354 ) / 28 );
  1970.                 else
  1971.                         size = Math.round( ( $( window ).height() - 170 ) / 28 );
  1972.  
  1973.                 if ( !ul.length || len < size + 1 || $('li:first', ul).is('.handle-top') )
  1974.                         return;
  1975.  
  1976.                 if ( len - size < 3 )
  1977.                         step = len - size;
  1978.  
  1979.                 handle = $('<li class="adminbar-handle" />');
  1980.  
  1981.                 if ( 'wp-admin-bar-my-account-with-avatar' == $( this ).parent().attr( 'id' ) ) {
  1982.                         $( '#wp-admin-bar-my-account-info' ).after( handle.clone().addClass('handle-top scrollend') );
  1983.                         $( '#wp-admin-bar-my-account-info' ).css( {'padding-bottom': '15px'} );
  1984.                         ul.css( {'padding-bottom': '15px'} );
  1985.                 } else {
  1986.                         ul.css({'padding': '15px 0'}).prepend( handle.clone().addClass('handle-top scrollend') );
  1987.                 }
  1988.  
  1989.                 ul.append( handle.addClass('handle-bottom') );
  1990.  
  1991.                 li.slice(size).hide();
  1992.  
  1993.                 $('li.adminbar-handle', ul).click(function(e){
  1994.                         e.stopPropagation();
  1995.  
  1996.                         if ( $(this).hasClass('handle-top') ) {
  1997.                                 if ( li.first().is(':visible') )
  1998.                                         return;
  1999.  
  2000.                                 index -= step;
  2001.                                 $('.handle-bottom', ul).removeClass('scrollend');
  2002.  
  2003.                                 if ( index <= 0 ) {
  2004.                                         index = 0;
  2005.                                         $(this).addClass('scrollend');
  2006.                                 }
  2007.  
  2008.                                 li.slice(index, index + step).show();
  2009.                                 li.slice(index + size, index + size + step).hide();
  2010.                         } else {
  2011.                                 if ( li.last().is(':visible') )
  2012.                                         return;
  2013.  
  2014.                                 index += step;
  2015.  
  2016.                                 $('.handle-top', ul).removeClass('scrollend');
  2017.  
  2018.                                 if ( index >= len - size ) {
  2019.                                         index = len - size;
  2020.                                         $(this).addClass('scrollend');
  2021.                                 }
  2022.  
  2023.                                 li.slice(index - step, index).hide();
  2024.                                 li.slice(index + (size - step), index + size).show();
  2025.                         }
  2026.                 });
  2027.         });
  2028.  
  2029.         $( '#wpadminbar #wp-admin-bar-shortlink' ).click( function() {
  2030.                 $( '#adminbar-shortlink-input' ).select();
  2031.         });
  2032.  
  2033.         $( '#wpadminbar #adminbarsearch .adminbar-search-input' ).focus( function() {
  2034.                 $( '#wpadminbar #adminbarsearch input' ).addClass( 'search-input-focus' );
  2035.                 $( '#wpadminbar #wp-admin-bar-search' ).addClass( 'search-input-focus' );
  2036.         });
  2037.  
  2038.         $( '#wpadminbar #adminbarsearch .adminbar-search-input' ).focusout( function() {
  2039.                 $( '#wpadminbar #adminbarsearch input.adminbar-search-input' ).removeClass( 'search-input-focus' );
  2040.                 $( '#wpadminbar #wp-admin-bar-search' ).removeClass( 'search-input-focus' );
  2041.         });
  2042.  
  2043. });
  2044. /* ]]> */
  2045. </script>
  2046.         <div class="wpcom-bubble action-bubble">
  2047.                 <div class="bubble-txt"></div>
  2048.         </div>
  2049.         <script type="text/javascript">function hideBubble() { jQuery('body').append( jQuery( 'div.wpcom-bubble' ).removeClass( 'fadein' ) ).off( 'click.bubble touchstart.bubble' ); jQuery(document).off( 'scroll.bubble' ); };</script>
  2050.                 <script type="text/javascript">
  2051.         jQuery( '#wp-admin-bar-jumptotop-button-menu a' ).click( function( e ) {
  2052.                 e.preventDefault();
  2053.                 jQuery( 'html, body' ).animate( { scrollTop: 0 }, 'fast' );
  2054.         } );
  2055.         function hideShowTbJumpToTop() {
  2056.                 var total_width = 0;
  2057.                 // Calculate total width taken by li's minus our button to see if we it'll
  2058.                 // overlap with other toolbar menus.
  2059.                 jQuery( '#wp-admin-bar-root-default > li' ).each( function() {
  2060.                         var self = jQuery( this );
  2061.                         if ( 'wp-admin-bar-jumptotop-button-menu' != self.attr( 'id' ) )
  2062.                                 total_width += self.width();
  2063.                 });
  2064.                 if ( jQuery( '#wp-admin-bar-jumptotop-button-menu' ).position()['left'] - total_width < 10 ) {
  2065.                         jQuery( '#jumptotop' ).animate( { 'top': '-50px' }, 'fast' );
  2066.                 } else if (  jQuery( window ).scrollTop() >= 350 && parseInt( jQuery( '#jumptotop' ).css( 'top' ) ) < 0 ) {
  2067.                         if ( jQuery( '#wp-admin-bar-jumptotop-button-menu' ).position()['left'] - total_width < 10 )
  2068.                            return;     
  2069.                         jQuery( '#jumptotop' ).animate( { 'top': 0 }, 'fast' );
  2070.                 } else if (  jQuery( window ).scrollTop() < 1 && parseInt( jQuery( '#jumptotop' ).css( 'top' ) ) >= 0 ) {
  2071.                         jQuery( '#jumptotop' ).animate( { 'top': '-50px' }, 'fast' );
  2072.                 }
  2073.         }
  2074.         // handle on page load if auto scrolling to a position
  2075.         hideShowTbJumpToTop();
  2076.         // bind to scrolll event
  2077.         jQuery( window ).scroll( function() {
  2078.                 hideShowTbJumpToTop();
  2079.         } );
  2080.         </script>
  2081.         <script type="text/javascript">
  2082.         var gravityInsightsParams = {
  2083.                 type:'content',
  2084.                 version:'1.1',
  2085.                 super_site_guid:'268fc15296103bd0d639409cab651e35',
  2086.                 site_guid:"30826218",
  2087.                 section_id:'',
  2088.                 subsection_id:''
  2089.         };
  2090.         document.write( unescape( "%3Cscript src='http://cdn.insights.gravity.com/moth-min.js' type='text/javascript'%3E%3C/script%3E" ) );
  2091. </script>
  2092. </body>
  2093. </html>
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