[3:05:57 PM] Utopic Z: teddy
[3:06:04 PM] Utopic Z: what kind of magic did you perform to get a girlfriend
[3:06:05 PM] Utopic Z: plz halp
[3:06:08 PM] Teddy Mishura: ... ? xD
[3:06:38 PM] Teddy Mishura: I talked with her about common interests we shared and we bonded over that, and then we began to fall for each other the more time we spent together.
[3:06:50 PM] Teddy Mishura: Don't get a girlfriend just to have a girlfriend.
[3:06:56 PM] Utopic Z: i know
[3:07:07 PM] Utopic Z: that wouldn't make any sense, would it
[3:07:16 PM] Utopic Z: but you know im just asking for basically girl advice
[3:07:48 PM] Teddy Mishura: I'm horrible at giving girl advice. xD
[3:08:09 PM] Teddy Mishura: IS this for a specific girl or girls in general?
[3:08:11 PM] Utopic Z: oh
[3:08:19 PM] Utopic Z: a specific one
[3:08:25 PM] Utopic Z: but you know if you're horrible at it its ok bro
[3:08:28 PM] Teddy Mishura: Nah, I'll give it my best shot. xD
[3:08:55 PM] Teddy Mishura: 4 years with my gf ought to count for something, right? xD I should be able to give some advice. xD
[3:09:13 PM] Teddy Mishura: Does she like you?
[3:09:15 PM] Utopic Z: yeah thats the reason why i asked you in the first place
[3:09:24 PM] Utopic Z: to be honest im not sure at all
[3:09:30 PM] Utopic Z: i'd say probably neutral
[3:10:29 PM] Teddy Mishura: Well how often do you interact with her?
[3:10:51 PM] Utopic Z: define interact xD
[3:11:03 PM] Teddy Mishura: Hang out with in person, talk to her, text her, message her, etc.
[3:11:32 PM] Utopic Z: we're in the same class and stuff but we dont really talk or anything
[3:11:47 PM] Teddy Mishura: Aaaah you're in school that's right.
[3:12:13 PM] Utopic Z: oh you're not in school anymore teddy ?
[3:12:18 PM] Utopic Z: good job graduating and stuff
[3:12:18 PM] Teddy Mishura: I'm in college, but I don't think you are. :0
[3:12:31 PM] Teddy Mishura: I'm unsure of your age tbh. xD
[3:12:36 PM] Teddy Mishura: Mmk.
[3:12:37 PM] Utopic Z: nah im in senior high school or whatever you guys call it
[3:12:46 PM] Utopic Z: basically last year of school before college and stuff
[3:13:00 PM] Teddy Mishura: Well, my first question is do you want to go out with her or hook up with her?
[3:13:24 PM] Utopic Z: so basically be her friend or be her boyfriend ?
[3:13:36 PM] Teddy Mishura: No, do you want a relationship or do you want sex?
[3:13:39 PM] Utopic Z: i'd wanna hook up with her but being her friend would be nice too
[3:13:42 PM] Utopic Z: oooooo
[3:13:45 PM] Utopic Z: relationship
[3:13:52 PM] Teddy Mishura: Oh okay, that I can offer some advice on. xD
[3:13:58 PM] Teddy Mishura: Hooking up has never been my thing. xD
[3:14:21 PM] Utopic Z: its ok bro
[3:14:30 PM] Utopic Z: interacting with girls at all never has been my thing xD
[3:14:31 PM] Teddy Mishura: please take everything I say with a grain of salt by the way
[3:14:41 PM] Utopic Z: ok
[3:14:52 PM] Teddy Mishura: First things first, she's gotta know you exist, and she's gotta think of you a little more positively than neutral.
[3:15:41 PM] Teddy Mishura: I'd suggest you try and find out something she likes and strike up a conversation with her about it. Or, strike up a conversation with her and find out what she likes from that.
[3:17:01 PM] Teddy Mishura: But the main point of this whole thing is that you talk with her. The more interaction with her = the better chances you have of upping how she thinks of you.
[3:17:56 PM] Utopic Z: hmm hmm
[3:18:05 PM] Teddy Mishura: Ugh, it's hard to put what I want to say into words. xD
[3:18:30 PM] Teddy Mishura: Like, if you're with her a lot and she's enjoying your company, that's a big step towards her beginning to like you.
[3:18:41 PM] Teddy Mishura: Likewise if you make her laugh or smile.
[3:19:23 PM] Teddy Mishura: Laughter is your most powerful ally. xD If you can make laugh often she'll automatically start to like you more and more.
[3:20:03 PM] Teddy Mishura: I guess the first hurdle for you is finding a way to spend time with her.
[3:20:08 PM] Teddy Mishura: You're in the same class, right?
[3:20:22 PM] Utopic Z: yeah
[3:20:24 PM] Teddy Mishura: Do you sit near each other?
[3:20:30 PM] Teddy Mishura: Is she a good student?
[3:20:45 PM] Utopic Z: uhm yeah pretty much
[3:20:50 PM] Teddy Mishura: To both of those? :0
[3:21:00 PM] Utopic Z: no just the second one
[3:21:08 PM] Utopic Z: i didnt even see the first one, fucking Skype bugs man xD
[3:21:10 PM] Teddy Mishura: Okay, haha.
[3:21:32 PM] Teddy Mishura: A good in for you might be asking her questions about homework or something the teacher was talking about.
[3:21:59 PM] Utopic Z: the problem is i'm pretty much the first guy in the class so i dont have questions to ask :v
[3:22:07 PM] Teddy Mishura: Ah, okay.
[3:23:37 PM] Teddy Mishura: You can still go this route though, a little white lie of "I was kind of spaced out during today's lecture, and you always seem like you're on top of notes/the material, did you understand what the teacher was talking about when they said (insert topic here)?"
[3:24:10 PM] Utopic Z: ok, sounds good
[3:24:41 PM] Teddy Mishura: The important thing is that it's an in for you to talk with her, and since you're throwing in a nice compliment to her while asking for help she'll be much more willing to help you out.
[3:25:48 PM] Teddy Mishura: I think it's probably a good idea to get your number of times you talk to her per day up, and then try and find a good way to hang out with her or something you two can talk about besides schoolwork.
[3:26:01 PM] Teddy Mishura: Are you friends with any of her friends?
[3:26:18 PM] Utopic Z: hmmmm yeah theres this one guy
[3:26:51 PM] Teddy Mishura: Try asking him what kinda stuff she's interested in and once you're talking to her a bit more regularly try and slip some of that into the conversation.
[3:27:00 PM] Teddy Mishura: People love talking about themselves and their interests.
[3:27:31 PM] Teddy Mishura: If you're a guy she has a common interest with and enjoys spending time with, that's very good for you.
[3:28:20 PM] Teddy Mishura: That's all I got for the "raising her esteem of you". xD
[3:28:35 PM] Teddy Mishura: Please ask other people for advice as well, don't just use mine. xD
[3:28:37 PM] Utopic Z: well thats already a lot of advice
[3:28:48 PM] Utopic Z: i mean all the wikihow advice is
[3:28:53 PM] Teddy Mishura: no please ask other actual people
[3:28:57 PM] Utopic Z: "be charming smart strong beautiful and nice and there you go"
[3:29:04 PM] Utopic Z: so i didnt get much from there
[3:29:05 PM] Utopic Z: xD
[3:29:19 PM] Utopic Z: yeah thats why i asked you
[3:29:39 PM] Utopic Z: i was tired of reading the same unrealistic generalistic unhelpful stuff just written differently
[3:29:49 PM] Utopic Z: but anyways thanks a lot man
[3:30:40 PM] Teddy Mishura: No problem, I hope it works out for you. :)
[3:31:14 PM] Utopic Z: thanks