i know when a friend disappears ur worried n all n feel sick sure if u care for them as much as he does for her but fuck sakes im trying here
[20:11:47] Rosy: im the friend that made the effort to see him
[20:12:16] Rosy: im the friend that made the effort to get him to the UK, whne his 2 other friends who hes known 14 years and like 4 years respectively didnt. the one who knew him for 14 years came n saw him n is going out there tomorrow because of him havin come here. fine. but SHE did nothing
[20:12:29] Rosy: she lives an hour away too, and didnt even suggest taht she came n met up while he was in the UK
[20:13:00] Dan Gamble: Well that kinda says it all (worry)
[20:14:14] Rosy: and yet shes still his precious friend who he loves n cherishes n has disappeared n yea that makes him wanna ignore everyone else in his life like "yea maybe i like the company without havin to talk back" but whats the fucking point in my carrying on typing for like an hour at a time before i get a response of any sorts
[20:14:32] Rosy: cus i dont even know if hes there or what even just a smiley or SOMETHING would let me know hes ther n still actually realising im talking
[20:15:29] Dan Gamble: He just sounds besotted by her and she wants nout to do with him because hes started getting creepy
[20:15:47] Rosy: i dont imagine he got creepy, she just blodoy doesnt want him
[20:15:48] Rosy: bloody*
[20:15:56] Rosy: nvm the fact i dont even think shes actually the person she says she is
[20:16:11] Dan Gamble: If she simply didn't want him she wouldn't make up the lies she has assuming they are lies
[20:16:14] Rosy: cus even hes done searchs of her birthday and name to try find any possible surname to get contact info and come up with nothing
[20:16:20] Dan Gamble: lol
[20:16:24] Dan Gamble: That's not creepy to you?
[20:16:41] Rosy: no cus ive been doing the same for tryin to find her to get some bloody info outa her as to where she is
[20:16:52] Dan Gamble: I'm sorry but that's just weird
[20:16:56] Rosy: hes only done it since shes not responded , tbh i didnt think he would, hes so uptight about knowing anyones surname etc
[20:16:58] Dan Gamble: Hes making a mountain out of a mole hill
[20:17:04] Dan Gamble: How long has he known she was having surgery?
[20:17:10] Rosy: *shrug* couple of weeks?
[20:17:15] Dan Gamble: lol
[20:17:24] Dan Gamble: You have to wait months for surgery
[20:17:29] Dan Gamble: And surgery that disables you for a week
[20:17:31] Dan Gamble: Many more months too
[20:17:41] Dan Gamble: And she only told him a few weeks even though shes known for months?
[20:18:25] Rosy: i dont know if she woulda known for months, i dont know.. i know a few weeks ago he said about her having had symptoms that were worrying her that were similar to what her sister had had n she had to have tests. then her sister died, then like one day he was like shes gone into surgery today
[20:18:31] Dan Gamble: I do know
[20:18:33] Dan Gamble: I've had surgery
[20:18:37] Dan Gamble: And it was kinda small
[20:18:41] Dan Gamble: And i was on a 2 month wait
[20:18:53] Dan Gamble: If she had symptoms a few weeks ago
[20:19:00] Dan Gamble: There is no way in hell she has surgery a few weeks later
[20:19:13] Rosy: probably not but then like i said i dont evne think shes the person she says she is
[20:19:30] Rosy: doubtful when theres like nothing that can be found out about her
[20:19:47] Dan Gamble: I think she's the person she wanted him to think she is
[20:20:05] Rosy: pretending u mean
[20:20:13] Dan Gamble: No not necessarily
[20:20:22] Dan Gamble: But i think she realised how 'creepy' or in to her he was, way too early
[20:20:29] Dan Gamble: Then told him certain stuff to protect herself
[20:20:40] Dan Gamble: Because you don't make up sisters dying and surgery just to get out of talking to someone
[20:20:51] Dan Gamble: You only do that if you need to do somethring drastic for a certain reason
[20:20:57] Rosy: or ur really sick n twisted
[20:21:09] Rosy: which if shes lied to him for the past 4 years about who she is, thats kinda sick n twisted
[20:21:39] Dan Gamble: You only see it like that because you're in with him on his side
[20:21:48] Dan Gamble: Me from an outside perspective see's it differently
[20:22:12] Rosy: either way its damn frustrating hes being so distant with the one person outa all of them thats been talking to him day in day out , cus even james only texts him couple of times a day
[20:22:41] Dan Gamble: Could be a blessing in disguise depending on why she's decided to be this drastic
[20:22:54] Rosy: hes not a creepy guy hes just a frustrating guy
[20:23:02] Rosy: dont forget ive met him in person now
[20:23:17] Dan Gamble: Yea but the way he's acting at the moment is pretty creepy tbh
[20:23:23] Dan Gamble: In my opinion anyway
[20:23:36] Rosy: if he was that besotted n creepy with her n u know, super duper in love, he wouldnt have come over here n spent that time with me
[20:23:37] Rosy: hes just
[20:23:48] Rosy: too in love to see the friend hes got tryin to be his friend and more to help him n comfort him
[20:24:32] Rosy: i mean, IM doing searches tho i dont know how old she is exaccttlly only roughly.. just because i wanna find damn answers n go to him look there, shes alive, she's fine, get over her
[20:24:35] Rosy: or look yea, shes dead, get over her
[20:24:52] Dan Gamble: How does he fall head over heels in love with someone of whom he doesn't know her surname and has never met?
[20:25:43] Rosy: the surname thing i find weird but then he flipepd out when i asked him his the first time til i pointed out i was just tryin to get to know my friend n all.  but u can fall head over heels in love with someone u havent met
[20:25:54] Rosy: ive been there, i was gona run off to america and marry someone id never met so i know THAT
[20:26:19] Rosy: tho with lance i knew his surname just couldnt pronounce it
[20:26:41] Dan Gamble: Yoou can be besotted with someone, not head over heels in love with someone
[20:26:46] Dan Gamble: They both feel very similar
[20:26:54] Rosy: i know the difference dan
[20:27:04] Rosy: and i know that what i felt for lance was love despite never having met